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Chinese New Year's Eve

2012-01-22T23:04:00.010+08:00

A reunion dinner is held on Chinese New Year's Eve.

"It's a very important time for families to have reunion and especially to have dinner together."

Although our conversation seemed a little boring but I enjoyed the sumptuous dinner {that my parents had prepared} with my dad, mom and brothers. My stomach is filled with good food {that ushered in wealth, happiness and good fortune} and I'm feeling bloated in my belly!

After the dinner, we drew lots for lottery (TOTO). Since we need 6 numbers {from 1 to 45}, each of us got to draw a number. Here come the laughter... when we did silly actions before we made our draw. Kekeke, I hope we win~~!

Then we decided to play card games...... I think I lose a few bucks? But you should know better that every parent won't want their child to be losing. Therefore, my dad will always spread the money he won to us. This time round my youngest brother received the coins which added up to S$20? In our hearts, the biggest winner is always our dad!

Now, I'm in my small cramped room. It looks much neater since I had packed for my vacation to Japan. Everything {except facial products, etc} is in the luggage and I'm ready to fly on the 25th. I'm so excited about this trip because I will be feeling snow!!! ☃

Well, actually I'm stuck in my room, wondering how much should I 'bao' to give my parents. Initially, I got my mind set on $168 for each of them... but after reading this:

"Red packets almost always contain money, usually varying from a couple of dollars to several hundred. Per custom, the amount of money in the red packets should be of even numbers, as odd numbers are associated with cash given during funerals (帛金: Bai Jin). The number 8 is considered lucky (for its homophone for "wealth"). The number six (六, liù) is also very lucky as it sounds like 'smooth' (流, liú), in the sense of having a smooth year.

Odd and even numbers are determined by the first digit, rather than the last. Thirty and fifty, for example, are odd numbers, and are thus appropriate as funeral cash gifts." -Wikipedia

YOU GET WHAT I MEAN? So I worried about it for an hour... until I found this:

"The amount of money contained in the envelope usually ends with an even digit, in accordance with Chinese beliefs; for instance 88 and 168 are both lucky numbers, as odd-numbered money gifts are traditionally associated with funerals." -Wikipedia

Hence, I decided to keep to the initial amount! Hehehe~!!

Anyway, tomorrow will be a long day! We will be visiting our elders to strengthen our ties with those closest and dearest to us....

HERE TO WISH EVERYONE--
A HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR!

It just came to my mind...

2012-01-01T23:11:00.048+08:00

I said I would, so here I am--
to list down my New Year's resolutions.

Well...
I always think the harder I list them all, the hardest it is to achieve.
Go with the flow will be the best answer for someone like me.

But...
This time it unknowingly came to my mind.

And...
I thought I would share it here.

So, let's get it started...

☐ Improve well-being: exercise more, lose weight, eat better, drink lesser

Since August 2010, I have been with Wellness for Life Chiropractic, where the chiropractors adjust misalignments of my spine to achieve optimal alignment in it and to establish uninterrupted nerve flow, so that my body can function at its best level. It is not an easy journey as I had to do 4 different types of stretching daily, as advised. It takes up 1.75 hours of every 24 hours. As difficult as it seems, I chose to continue the journey after 1 year with them, only because of my health. It showed a significant improvement at month 12.

With that said, I have to keep to my 'Original Schedule of Adjustments' (OSA) because 1 missed adjustment in a week can set me back in my healing an entire week. I also have to constantly remind myself that home traction and postural exercises are as important.

Beside that, back in July 2011, I had my weight taken. According to my Muscle-Fat Control, I need to gain 11.6kg muscle and lose 0.7kg fat. It's visceral fat (intra-abdominal fat) - the fat that surrounds the internal organs. In other words, I have to lose the excess 0.7kg of visceral fat, also known as "belly fat". As much as I hate to say it, I need to lose weight in my stomach! So please stop saying I'm skinny! Just like how the fat people dislike skinny people for saying they need to lose weight, I dislike it when people say I'm skinny and I need to put on weight instead of lose weight. They don't understand how tough it is for skinny people to hide their belly fat!

Therefore, I decided to eat better and drink less. I have been skipping dinner or eating dinner late, which is really bad for my health. But that's just how my family do. Also, I don't always drink but on occasions like birthdays and festivals, I might drink a little bit more than I should. Now I need to learn to say no to alcoholic drinks!

I have made a commitment to improve my health. What about you?

"Happiness is Wealthiness is Healthiness."

☐ Improve finances: save money

I have been saving since the beginning of 2011 but I didn't meet my savings target for 2011. It just goes to show how I lose focus in the midway. To make worse, in 3 days of last December, I agreed to go to Japan this January. I still can't believe I did that but I have no regrets. Firstly, it is one of the countries I want to visit. Secondly, I'm going with friends I want to travel with. Thirdly, I don't need to worry about the itinerary. Fourthly, I may get to touch and see snow. Lastly, I truly feel I deserve a holiday!

Therefore, I promise myself to save harder when I'm back as to hit my saving target as soon as possible. I should be able to reach it at end of the first quarter of this year. The most challenging part is keeping the money; to never spend a single cent of my saving. If I did it, I will then decide my saving target for 2012. It will definitely be lesser than that of 2011 because I am determined to take some time and money out to learn something new. I'm also planning to set aside a small amount of money for my parents.

So, I can't expect myself to save as much as I did last year, unless I get a reasonable pay raise soon. I mean, really soon.

"Fail to plan, plan to fail."

☐ Improve career: get a better job

Talking about finances, I might need a job that can provide me with a better salary and has more beneficial. I'm embarrassed to say my current salary is the average salary for a graduate. And I feel certain that I deserve a raise! If it doesn't happen any time soon, and even if it doesn't reach my expected salary, I will consider looking for a new job.

However, there are many things to take into consideration before I decide to quit. As you may know, I have been with this company for approximately 1.3 years and I'm getting more comfortable at my current job. Even when my colleague and I encounter conflict in the office, we will attempt to resolve it. I believe, that no matter where I go, I will face people who are negative, people who oppose my ideas, people who piss me off or people who simply do not like me. Conflict is a fact of life and that's why I'm staying positive in this current job.

Also due to my tight schedule, since I'm taking some time out to learn something new, I'm unable to get a job with high stress and/or long hours. I don't want to be overwhelmed by stress, leading to poor health for myself. I make sure I avoid physical and mental stress at work.

Hence, I will make a decision at a later date. Even though I have always been reminded that, "The sooner you start, the sooner you will be working at a job you love, one that fulfils you, that challenges you, that you look forward to each and everyday."

"If you don't get out of your shell. You are just a NUT!"

☐ Improve education: learn something new

As I have mentioned before, I'm learning something new and I have made up my mind on just these two things; to learn to play the piano and to learn to drive. I think that's more than enough to occupy my time?

When I was younger than 7 years old, I refused to learn to play the piano. I also refused to learn ballet. When I attended higher primary school, I admire people who can play musical instrument and I deeply regret my decision. Sad to say, until today, I can't read music. But my parents have encouraged me to go ahead and learn it. So last december I visited the music school and ordered a digital piano. It will be in our house on January 14! I'm kind of excited, and I'm looking forward to take up piano lessons! I somehow hope that my brothers will learn it too! ♩ ♪ ♫ ♬

As to driving, my parents have been encouraging me to learn it since I was 18 but it was not what I wanted. I always wanted to learn to ride until recently. I changed my mind. I guess I have went through the rebellious phase and I'm starting to appreciate and respect my parents' decisions. As of now, I have decided to learn to drive after I put aside S$2000 for it. If everything goes well, it should happen in this April.

"Learning is a treasure that will follow its owner everywhere."

☐ Improve self: manage time better, be more independent, keep track of my life, take a trip, volunteer to help others

I obviously need to manage my time well since I'm learning new things. Honestly, I'm unprepared for this long and tiring journey but what matters most is I must be ready to spend more time with my family. We used to go on a picnic, kite flying, cycling and/or fishing on the weekend, but it hasn't happened for a long time. I can't even remember the last time we gathered for those activities. But, at least be thankful we have been having dinner together. I know it's not enough, I want to do more. I love my parents. And I hope my brothers will remind me that we are so busy growing up, we often forget our parents are also growing old.

I need to give generous time, money and love to my family. After all, their love is the best gift I could ever receive. They certainly deserve more from me and I don't want to regret spending too little on them.

At the same time, I need to keep track of my life. I have to take time off my busy schedule to sit down with myself and reflect on my life. I will be spending less time on social media but when there is spare time, I hope to share the happenings of my life.

I especially want to share with everyone my experience in Japan. I really can't wait to go there with Lisa, Serena and Shu Fen!!! ✈ ✈ ✈ ✈ ✈

If there is chance I can travel with my family to Taiwan, I will be more than happy.

Lastly, I want to volunteer and help others (Flag Day, etc) . They say the best thing to do if you're feeling poor is to give something away. I guess I have understand what it meant.

"If you don't program yourself, life will program you."

And love is a word used too much and much too soon...

SOMEDAY WE'LL KNOW

1-1-20TWELFTH

2012-01-01T20:10:00.025+08:00

Last New Year's Eve was spent with Kai Xin and two other close friends, watching fireworks outside Marina Square! We had a sleepover and I was forced to wake up to play with a stick of sparkler... thinking of it makes me smile! ☆~

At that moment, while I was witnessing the most awe-inspiring fireworks, Gi Siang as well as Sing Yee were there at the same location but different spots. So, this year we made the effort to gather together for a year-end dinner...

CHEERS TO NEW YEAR 20TWELFTH!
The Last of 2011, The First of 2o12...
was spent with the girlfriends and their boyfriends*

It might seem like we were having a reunion dinner, held on Chinese New Year's Eve, during which family members get together to celebrate. But, it was actually a very rare day for us as we don't usually come together. Everyone has to commit their own personal lives and it's not so easy to get away with.

It is not the 'Perfect Ten' yet but I'm still glad everyone make time for this gathering... a very memorable end to 2011 as well as a meaningful start to 2012. And so, without further ado, let me share with you how we prepare, cook and eat...

[Discussions going on...]

[Pick, Wash, Cut...]

[Ready to Cook...]

[Methods of Cooking...]

{Steaming - healthy cooking}

{Grilling - healthy alternative to cooking with oil}

{Drinks for the day - Green Tea, Ribena, 'Chiwawa'}

{Food for us - Are you hungry now?}

{We cook what we eat & We eat what we cook}

{Cooking is Sharing - Sharing is Caring}

After hours.......

{Meal is over - everyone has finished eating}

That's our last meal of 2011! Eat, be satisfied, and blessed!

Then, we gathered in the room to play 'Taboo' (Singapore Edition), a word guessing party game. The objective of the game is for a player to have their partners guess the word on the card without using the word itself or five additional words listed on the card. It's not as easy as it seems unless you understand your partner's words and ideas.

Before the clock struck 12, we sat in a circle around the presents!!! Christmas is twelve days long... we have our gift exchanges on New Year's Eve as we didn't meet as a whole clique on Christmas Eve nor Christmas, due to our schedules.

{Our Christmas gift exchange - beautifully wrapped with love}

{Gifts - Do you girls love the presents from me?}

When it was 12AM... "Happy New Year! Happy New Year! Happy New Year!" We continued with a few rounds of 'Taboo' before we processed to 'Drunken Tower' drinking game that I bought for Yvonne as the gift. It just hit me that she and her boyfriend will be interested in it as they drink very often with their friends?

{'Drunken Tower' - drinking game}

{Same concept as Jenga - with a wild twist}

As it was the first day of a New Year, I didn't want to admit (HAHAHA!) that I was very unlucky on that night. I drank more than I should... even though I was NEVER the one who caused the tower to fall! But Sing Yee happened to remove the block that states 'Drink one(two) with player to the left' and Sam happened to remove the block that states 'Drink one(two) with player to the right'. Still the worst feeling was when you painstakingly remove the block that states 'Drink one(two)' OHMYTIAN!

After hours of drinking, we decided to have the chocolate fondue with fruits! SINFUL (BUT WHO CARES!) Chocolate is my favorite and I can have it any time anywhere. Even N O W, I'm having the Royce' chocolate received from Gi Siang.

{Preparation - lighting up the candle}

{Dear Fruits - I can't hear youuuuuuuuu!}

{Chocolate fondue - with grapes and strawberries}

We stayed up all night to eat, drink, play and talk, talk, talk.
Times like these are the best! (♥)

But as always, there is a price to pay. I got home in the morning to realize that my brothers were not at home!? In others word, none of us spent the first (second, minute, hour) of 2012 with our parents! I was feeling very guilty at that moment and couldn't get it out of my head, I had to tear! QQ

Then a sentence hit me, "Love your parents. We are so busy growing up, we often forget they are also growing old." That was exactly what I feel... my brothers and I have been neglecting our parents in one way or another.

And that morning before I dozed off, I unknowingly came out with a list of resolutions {kept in my mind}! It is so unlikely of me to do that and I'm thinking of sharing it in my next post...

P.S 2012 is a leap year!

Christmas 2011;

2011-12-30T02:06:00.064+08:00

EVERY YEAR. EVERY CHRISTMAS.

I remember last Christmas Eve with the girlfriends was spent at Timbre @ The Substation and last Christmas with the *cousins was spent in Studio M Hotel. It was one of the most memorable year-end I had.

And this year, the *cousins decided to book a hotel room at Hotel Re! It has become an annual gathering for us... to celebrate our friendship.

{Hotel Re! - modern retro themed boutique hotel}

{At the Entrance to Hotel Re! - wonderful surprise}

{At the Reception - swirls of vivacious colors}

{At the Waiting Area - relaxing in modern retro comfort}

We waited for an hour...
{At the Lift Lobby - retro feel}

{In the Lift - attractive lighting}

When we arrived at the 10th storey, the first room no. that caught my eyes was 1010! I see this number very often then but not anymore after it came out as first prize in 4D. Now I have been seeing 1001!!! Talk about coincidence...

{Room No. 1001 - I have been seeing this number very often now!}

{Premier Triple Room/28sqm - three single beds}

{LCD TV - movie/sport channels}

{Glittery Mosaic-tiled Bathroom - standing shower}

{Hotel with View of Chinatown - serene and scenic environment}

We decided to keep the room neat and tidy... display the snacks and drinks on the glass shelves, keep our bags and shoes in the wardrobe, etc.

{Eat the day away - Snacks and Drinks}

Thanks to Kai Xin and Wei Jie who reached Carrefour @ Plaza Singapura early and grabbed everything, with no further instruction given. I like it when my friends take initiative instead of waiting for things to happen! -thumbs up-

{Drink the night away - Lime juice, Plain water, Lemon tea}

Thanks to Josh for the drinks that kept us awake for the night... I can't imagine the night without the plain water! E X T R E M E L Y BORING!?

...since we were all so bored with nothing to do in the day! Some were watching 'How to Train A Dragon', 'Shrek Forever', 'Karate Kid' while I lay on the #foreveralone bed with my beloved MacBook.

Until finally, they decided to join me and play with photo booth for awhile before we headed to People Park Food Centre for our late lunch! We were so hungry ~~we could die~~!

When we were on our way back, "Beep! Beep! Beep!" It's Jing Long on his bike! Like a cool only~

And he was complaining, Y U ALL NO BUY FOOD FOR ME! So, in less than 2 hours, we decided to ride out to order and delivery 2 sets of KFC Family Feast... I'm proud to say it was delivered by Jing Long, Meldric and I! #likeapro

{YOU EAT. I EAT. EVERYBODY EAT.}

After filling our stomachs with food, we were A L I V E again! Take photos! Lots and lots of photos with the dearest *cousins! (♥)

{ANdyStorm. leongraphy. getme0ut. Swiszy.}

WE GOT EVERYONE TO JOIN US! It feels like it was just yesterday, when we got to know each other. And now, it is the end of 2011... I have know all of them for more than 2 A M A Z I N G years! Without them, my weekends will be mehhhhh... I'm glad we have pulled through so much. Thank you all for bringing so much fun, joy and laughter!

{Just for Laugh}

Suddenly, someone shouted, 'Running Man~!!' The next moment, a few of us were jumping on the bed and hoping to capture our 'Peaceful Gary' look in the photos... but D A N G ' the expressions on our faces are da bomb.

Well, I was really excited to play the 'Running Man Photo Zone Game'... but it stopped in 5 minutes!? Stay Calm, Carry on... to take facial expressions! Take 1: Pouting! Take 2: Smiling! Take 3: '=Þ'! Take 4: '✌'!

Again, we were stopped... to join everyone to take group photos!

At 11:55PM, we prepared the log cake and waited for Joyce to appear... like T A D A H S Cinderella needs to be back home to us at 12:00AM~!!

Thanks @Sparklette for the amazing looking log cake! ☃

So we sang, "Oh, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells! Jingle All The Way! Blah blah blah, blah blah blah, lalalalala~" then continued with, "We wish you a Merry Christmas, We wish you a Merry Christmas, We wish you a Merry Christmas, And a Happy New Year!" A memorable joyous moment when we all gathered around the cake and sang together before we tasted the chocolicious cake. B E S T ! ☆~

At the same time, Andy surprised everyone with little gifts and cards! A thoughtful gift idea! It is very rare to find guys who sincerely prepare gifts for friends...

{Love is sharing - feeding each other}

{Our little gifts - how thoughtful of Andy}

And out of nowhere... someone shouted 'TAUPOKKKKK!' and the next thing I knew, the guys were sitting on top of each other, screaming at the top of their lungs. If you don't know, 'Taupok' (originally called 'Touch Ball') is a physical and rigorous activity that take place when you least expected it. Even when.......... TAUPOKKKKK! ▼

{Round 1 - Attack Andy}

{Round 2 - Attacked Meldric}

{Round 3 - Attacked Wei Jie}

While the night is still young, let's start with drinking 'plain water' games! First was 'Drunken Tower', the game of steady hands, big laughs and seeing double! It has a same concept with the famous block stacking game 'Jenga' with a wild twist. The game comes complete with 4 shot glasses, so add liquor and play by the rules or create your own. Next was 'Circle of Death', this game requires players to do certain actions that are associated with each card. It is played with different house rules assigned at the start of the game.

{Start of the Game - E N T H U S I A S T I C}

{Drinking Games}

{Drunken Tower}

{Circle of Death}

{After hours - Z O M B I F I E D}

Nooooo! We're not drunk, we're just tired. Yet we decided to play 'Truth or Dare' or rather 'Dare or Dare' to keep everyone awake and involved in the game. It was blah! Kiss here kiss there? Ohhhhh, I got to kiss Kai Xin's hand! :|

Next morning, I was browsing through countless number of photos taken at Hotel Re! for Christmas Party! Fun, Joy and Laughter! I really love being around the *cousins!

TIME TO TIDY UP EVERYONE! We took turns to shower and here is-- our shag faces... trying to look good with our eye bags! O.O

Funny how time flies when we're having fun...

P.S Happy New Year 2012!

Merry Christmas 2011!

2011-12-25T15:53:00.002+08:00

Photo credits to: ANdyStorm

When the going gets tough, the tough get going...

2011-12-23T05:14:00.001+08:00

NO JOB CAN EVER BE PERFECT
(BECAUSE WE WON'T EVER BE PERFECT)
Every job has its ups and downs.
And depending on who you are and what you like.
Those ups and downs are different for everyone.

The Tourist (2010)

2011-12-22T01:42:00.008+08:00

"
Elise: Invite me to dinner, Frank?
Frank Tupelo: What?
[she gives him a look]
Frank Tupelo: Would you like to have dinner?
Elise: Women don't like questions.
Frank Tupelo: Join me for dinner.
Elise: Too demanding.
Frank Tupelo: Join me for dinner?
Elise: Another question.
[Frank thinks for a moment]
Frank Tupelo: I'm having dinner, if you'd care to join me.
[Elise smiles at him]

Frank Tupelo: Who is he? Hotels don't leave gifts like that, do they? Who is he?
Elise: He's someone who used to be very important to me.
Frank Tupelo: Used to? Are you meeting him in Venice?
Elise: I hope so. Part of me hopes I don't.
Frank Tupelo: Why?
Elise: Because, I don't like being told what to do. I don't like being... summoned. But it felt even worse not hearing from him for two years.

[Frank notices Elise touching her bracelet]
Elise: It's the um...the Roman god, Janus. My mother gave it to me when I was little. She wanted to teach me that people have two sides. A good side, a bad side, a past, a future. And that we must embrace both in someone we love. And I tried.
Frank Tupelo: What's he like?
Elise: He's...different, from anybody I know.
Frank Tupelo: Different's good. Where I come from, the highest compliment they can offer a person is to say that they're down to earth, grounded. I hate it. It drives me nuts.
"

KAIXIN'S 21ST BIRTHDAY

2011-12-20T12:48:00.035+08:00

A L L S M I L E for K A I X I N

Kai Xin's 21st birthday was successfully planned! It was supposed to be a sister date, just she and I, but I decided to give her a moment of surprise that I can actually say... seized her? I invited Jing Long, Li Mei and Wei Jie to join us for her birthday dinner, which she totally didn't expect it!

I needed their help to carry out the plan and they were unexpectedly good at it. I was totally impressed with them for coming out with a better plan than mine. Well, my plan was ruined due to overtime and... I was feeling exhausted from too many bad encounters in a day. Yet I was still smiling because of her.

It may be an easy and inexpensive dinner but we greatly enjoyed our food and each other's presence. We were giggling at all our small actions... Jing Long and Li Mei bickered over a cup of mashed potato, Li Mei left a spoonful of rice on her iron plate, etc.

After our meal, I took Kai Xin to the restroom while the rest stayed in the fast food steakhouse to write their wishes on the handmade paper bag and light up the candle on the slice of cake.

Kai Xin

Jia Qi

Jing Long

Li Mei

Wei Jie

Kai Xin, the happiest and luckiest girl, gave us her widest smile when receiving her present. I was sure she will like the present. As she can use it to capture every happy moment of her life with family and friends.

{Handmade paper bag - colorfully decorated with our wishes}

{Birthday present - nicely wrapped with sweet looking paper}

{Instax mini 7s - keep your photos and memories alive)

To end this post.. here is--
photos of the the birthday girl and us;
Sister, may our friendship gets stronger everyday...
T h a n k Y o u F o r A l w a y s B e i n g B y M y S i d e !

YINGHUI'S 21ST BIRTHDAY

2011-12-16T01:09:00.030+08:00

ANTOINETTE

Ying Hui's 21st birthday was celebrated at Antoinette Mandarin Gallery. A small restaurant/café in an opulent ambiance with a comfortable atmosphere. We got to experience a little touch of France, with French food to delight our palate.

{French chic - mix of classic and contemporary}

We only ordered mains, crêpe and pasta, as we were too full for desserts. However, I took a bite of the Salted Caramel Macaron. The cookies are too hard but the filling is delicious. As for crêpe and pasta, they are good but nothing particularly outstanding. I believe sweets are the star attraction in Antoinette as there are customers, who queued for an hour or so, ordering desserts and tea ONLY!

{Sweet Crêpes - Peach Melba}

{Savoury Crêpes - Concorde}

{Pasta - Morel Mushroom}

{Pasta - Gnocchi Carbonara}

{Pasta - Marinara}

{Pasta - Seafood Alio Olio}

{Sweet Crêpes - Nougatine}

And since Antoinette is well known for their cakes, pastries and desserts, it is definitely a great place for afternoon tea in this luxurious restaurant.

{Macaron - a variety of flavors}

I would soon visit the original branch at Penhas to try their classic desserts and savories. I have confident, it won't disappoint me.

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ORCHID BOWL

Our next activity is: Play bowling at Orchid Bowl @ Yishun Safra. An activity which family and friends can enjoy great fun. We are all ready to fight for first place as the winner got to PLAY FOR FREE! I know it won't be me but...

We love challenges!

In the midst of our game, we decided to pass the present to Ying Hui. Tadahs~!! A watch! We really hope you love it... wear this will remind you, OF US!

A photo of the girlfriends;
KEEP SMILING... even though we're losing!
(Hahaha)

Final Score
▼

I'M RIGHT, I'M NOT THE FIRST.
I'M WRONG, I'M NOT THE LAST.

The winner is Yong Quan! He saved $12.00 and we each spent $2.40 more... but everyone has fun during the challenge. Anyway, I was the second last in the first game but I was the second after the final game.

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BBOYD CAFE.LOUNGE

Our last activity is: Present the birthday cake and sing birthday song to the birthday girl! Never did we expect Yong Quan to order a bottle of liquor, even though we already had 4 jugs of beer!

That night, we got a little crazy! Beer + Liquor + Fried foods + Tiramisu layer cake! DrinkEatPlay! Those were the days in 2008... so long! I miss the good ol' days...

To end this post.. here is--
a photo of the crazy friends;Ying Hui, be happy and stay healthy!
H o p e Y o u H a ve F u n W i t h U s . . .

Don't you just love (surprise) gifts?

2011-12-14T20:48:00.007+08:00

{macarons and chocolates}

Thank You, Buddy Wen Yu!

You're one of the few good friends who will surprise me with gifts on special occasions like my birthday or on random days when you come back from holiday. A friend who thinks of me even when you're traveling... someone who truly care for me and value our friendship.

You remind me not to give up but to work hard and strive towards my dreams. You encouraged me to save and taught me to be patient when making money.

You worry about my health and care about my happiness. Most importantly, you give without expecting something in return. You're truly a wonderful friend!

P.S Keep people who love you, motivate you, encourage you, enhance you, and make you happy. If a person does none of these things, let them go.

A trip to Haw Par Villa...

2011-12-12T21:20:00.001+08:00

Due to the unforeseen rain, it was a quick trip to Haw Par Villa. We only visited the most well-known attraction, 'The Ten Courts of Hell', with gruesome depictions of hell in Chinese mythology...

(*Disclaimer: Some photos of the exhibition from Haw Par Villa depict victims of violent torture in Hell which may be considered by some people as objectionable. Readers are advised to view at their own discretion.)

The Ten Courts of Hell

"Buddhists believe that reincarnation is a form of reward a retribution on their journey to Nirvana. The Ten Courts of Hell are purgatory where a person is sent to be punished for the sins and misdeeds of their past life. A sinner must go through all Ten Courts and in the tenth, final judgment will determine his form of reincarnation.

The legend of the Ten Courts of Hell tells of the punishment that await sinners after their death but before reincarnation is determined. The sinner is sent to 'hell' where he will be tormented by demonic-looking 'Yama attendants' for the misdeeds he has committed in his past life.

In purgatory, the Ten Courts of Hell are a labyrinth of infernal dungeons, each presided over by a judge who is known as the 'President' and a Registrar of Life and Death. The Presidents are recognized by their long black beards and square flat hats from which hang strings of beads. Registrars record the details of the punishment and hold a brush and set of documents.

The sinner will go through nine courts before judgment is finally reached. In each of the nine courts, he is punished for the particular sin that he has committed." -Singapore Paranormal Investigators

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First Court of Hell Yama: King QinGuang

"In the First Court of Hell, King Qinguang conducts preliminary trials and each prisoner is judged according to his deeds in his past life. The 'good' are distinguished from the 'evil' and the King recommends appropriate reward or punishment. Punishment is then carried out in the various Courts."

"Those with virtuous conduct in their past life will be led over the 'Golden Bridge' to reach paradise."

"Those whose past good deeds outweigh crimes committed will be sent to the 'Silver Bridge' to reach paradise."

"Those who were evil doers in their past life will be sent to repent before the Mirror of Retribution' and then taken to a subsequent Court of Hell to be punished."

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Second Court of Hell Yama: King ChuJiang

[Crime: Corruption / Stealing and gambling → Punishment: Frozen into blocks of ice]

[Crime: Prostitutes → Punishment: Thrown into a pool of blood and drowned]

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Third Court of Hell Yama: King SongDi

[Crime: Ungratefulness / Disrespect to elders / Escape from prison
→ Punishment: Heart cut-out]

[Crime: Drug addicts and traffickers / Tomb robbers / Urging people into crime and social unrest
→ Punishment: Tied to red hot copper pillar and grilled]

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Fourth Court of Hell Yama: King WuGuan

[Crime: Tax dodger / Refusal to pay rent / Business fraud
→ Punishment: Pounded by stone mallet]

[Crime: Disobedience to one's siblings / Lack of filial piety
→ Punishment: Grounded by a large stone]

"Wang-Si Town - This accommodates those where were wronged and driven to their death. They would be asked to view how their enemies receive retribution. They would then be judged on their past deeds and given an appropriate punishment."

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Fifth Court of Hell Yama: King YanLuo

[Crime: Plotted another's death for his property or money / Money lenders with exorbitant interest rates
→ Punishment: Thrown onto a hill of knives]

"The viewing Home Tower is for the evildoers to see how their relatives and family are suffering as a result of their wrong-doings."

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Sixth Court of Hell Yama: King PienCheng

[Crime: Cheating / Cursing / Abducting others
→ Punishment: Thrown onto a tree of knives]

[Crime: Misuse of books / Possession of pornographic material / Breaking written rules and regulations / Wasting food

→ Punishment: Body sawn into two]

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Seventh Court of Hell Yama: King TaiShan

[Crime: Rumour-mongers / Sowing discord among family members
→ Punishment: Tongue pulled out]

[Crime: Rapists / Driving someone to their death
→ Punishment: Thrown into wok of boiling oil]

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Eighth Court of Hell Yama: King DuShi

[Crime: Lack of filial obedience / Causing trouble for family members / Cheating during examinations
→ Punishment: Intestines and organs pulled out]

[Crime: Rapists / Driving someone to their death
→ Punishment: Thrown into wok of boiling oil]

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Ninth Court of Hell Yama: King PingDeng

[Crime: Robbery / Murder / Rape / Any other unlawful conduct
→ Punishment: Head and arms chopped off]

[Crime: Neglect of the old and the young
→ Punishment: Crushed under boulders]

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Tenth Court of Hell Yama: King ZhuanLun

"In the Tenth Court, there is the 'Wheel of Reincarnation' and the 'Pavilion of Forgetfulness' ("Men-Po" Pavilion)."

Men-Po

"After serving their sentences, prisoners arrive at the Tenth Court where King Zhuanlun passes final judgement. The prisoners are then brought to the 'Pavilion of Forgetfulness' where an old lady 'Men Po' hands them a cup of magic tea which on drinking, makes them forget their past lives."

"They will then go through the 'Wheel of Reincarnation'. Depending on the prisoner's past life, he would either be reborn as a human or an animal. Some would be reborn into a life of ease and comfort while others into sorrow and suffering."

Yes, I'm a sinner. I believe we are all sinners one way or another. But being a sinner does not make us a bad person. Learn how to minimize your sins, understand the power of self forgiveness, and have faith in yourself and God.

When we came out of Hell, the Heaven is crying. We didn't have a chance to make our wishes in front of the wishing well but.. I always wish on the moon (☾) and the stars (✰) and aeroplane (✈) !

Don't be afraid to look silly...

2011-12-10T04:40:00.009+08:00

// You see, we aren't silly enough.

We're far too serious.

We take ourselves too seriously and

we're often afraid to look silly.

Being ourselves... somewhat s i l l y, somewhat c u t e!
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(WHO CARES) WHO'S WATCHING

with
ANdyStorm, yourapplepie, CalvinTimo, conanseow, BenVoda,
dawnrockka, donnlicious, fennyhwang, jqmeow, forest330,
Aversence, getme0ut, Swiszy, vveijie, Dream2breakaway

P.S These photos remind me of #RunningMan Photo Zone Game! Peaceful Gary~!! （＾∀＾）v

JINGLONG'S 19ST BIRTHDAY

2011-12-06T21:27:00.002+08:00

I have a love-hate relationship with Jing Long's 19th *S U R P R I S E* birthday...

Because this brother of mine is always feeling inferior and negative. He thinks that no one realizes his existence and no one bothers to spend time with him. But in fact, we remember him! WE ALWAYS DO!!!

Well... I'm not sure about the rest but You Are The V.I.P to My Heart!

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When it comes to planning, someone has to take the initiative so it might as well be me. Of course I didn't do it alone. That night after the quarrel, I almost gave up on the thought of giving him a surprise. But I wanted to hang on... I chatted with Dawn & Ying Zi about it and they gave me some good ideas, which I shared with Angie & Conan. Then, with the help from Meldric, we came up with a brilliant plan. We planned closely and kept everyone updated. Everything was good except we were busy with study or work.

On his birthday itself, Andy and Dawn accompanied me to shop for his present. I was glad when they came to meet me... without them, I would be lost. All the leather & leather look jackets from TOPMAN, ZARA, BERSHKA look so goooood!

An hour before he ended work, we were already in his place. ALL READY!!! But due to the unforeseen rain, we were struck in his brother's room for 2 hours as he was struck in the rain.

THANKS GOD we sure know how to entertain ourselves...

T A D A H S ! ! ! SURPRISE FOR THE BIRTHDAY BOY!
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EVERYONE SINGING THE BIRTHDAY SONG...

NOW I WONDER WHAT ARE YOUR WISHES?
▼Stay Healthy x Be happy
& may your wishes come true!

We had already planned to have pizzas + sides for the night... (pi), my favorite! And I really love the Choco Exotic cake from Four Leaves! Om nom nom away~

YOU EAT. I EAT. EVERYONE EAT.
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MOST IMPORTANTLY,
I'm beyond happy to know that everyone enjoyed themselves.

NOW watch the video of us preparing to surprise the birthday boy!
"Shhhhh~ Shhhhhh~ Shhhhh~"

(Video credits to: Calvin Timothy Leong, Conan Seow)

And to end this post.. here is--
a photo of Jing Long and his 15 'dont know what;Cousins n' friends! x
L i v e L o v e L a u g h !

Photos credit to: Tay Kaizhi

{Food is Love - Pique Nique}

2011-12-04T20:54:00.001+08:00

PIQUE NIQUE

{Table setting - neat arrangement}

{Classic Benedict - English muffin, Paris ham, poached eggs, fries}

{Savory pancake - with mash potato, bacon and sausage gravy}

{Food is Love - Strictly Pancakes}

2011-12-04T20:53:00.002+08:00

STRICTLY PANCAKES

{Savoury pancake - Benedict the Thief}

{Sweet pancake - Strawberries & Co.}

It is the simple things that make me smile...

2011-12-01T12:12:00.002+08:00

Your daily dose of jokes.
P.S Never Thought I'd Miss You!

If love was easy...

2011-11-30T23:11:00.001+08:00

'I will.. step.. on.. a bar.. of soap.. and slip and fall.. for you.'
Will you catch me when I fall?

ANDY'S 22ND BIRTHDAY

2011-11-29T23:59:00.004+08:00

Andy's 22nd birthday was celebrated at The Mind Cafe @ 60A Prinsep Street. An ideal meeting place - where people meet up for board games over food and drinks. Definitely a great place for friends to gather and spend quality time together! Eat, drink, play!

The environment gave a warm and happy feeling; full of smiles, giggles and laughter. Everyone was engrossed in their games... we could hear people screaming and shouting their lungs out!

Before we joined the fun, we ordered our choice of food. There are promotions going on and we went for the mind MEGA MEAL package (1 meal set* with 3 hours of boardgames).

There are a variety of main courses to choose from; fish & chips, crispy chicken cutlet, pasta, lasagne. We were spoilt for choice!

Over 2000 games across their 4 outlets...

Lack of choice? NO. We were actually overwhelmed by the number of games on the shelves! However, all of us have no idea how to play most of the games. But fret not, the person-in-charge will explain the instructions of the game if you ask for help.

COUSINS*
birthday boy n' the lucky 7

Josh x JiaqiAndy x Li MeiYing Zi x JoyceMeldric x Jing Long

While waiting for our food, we had the birthday boy to complete OUR missions! Oh yes, some of us were already there, at The Mind Cafe, to set up the missions before we met him. We planted 3 capsule balls in the corners of the cafe. Inside each ball contains a mission card and lots of sweet...

MISSION! MISSION! MISSION!
I'm sooooo into Running Man, I asked the rest to join me in planning the missions...

Call a person on your contact list and make him/her says, "You sound weird today!"
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Mission: Take a photo with the girl you think is the prettiest in the shop (*excluding our clique).
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Mission: Find three miniature figurines in the cafe.
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To be honest, he was quick and alert in finding the capsule balls! He was attracted to the balls... maybe because... *L O O K CLOSER* our wishes are written on them!

By the time he had completed the missions, we were ready to eat. H u n g r y , h u n g r y , very h u n g r y! Oh, we're not called the lucky 7 for no reason. The bill was on our birthday boy!

Now, it's Playtime~!! Jenga [True or Dare], one of the most popular games, is simple to play... just stack the blocks into a tower without letting it fall. At the same time, if you pick a red block you will have a dare to perform and if you pick a black block you will have to tell the truth.

30. Pretend you're eating something that tastes really bad.
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22. Try to touch your nose with your tongue.
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JEN JEN JENGA~!!

Jing Long and Meldric introduced the game, Tumblin' Monkeys. A game of skill and action that's easy to learn... just collect the fewest number of monkeys to win.

I recommended Snorta!, the wild game of moos, meows and more. Everyone will stumble and stutter to blurt out the animal sounds.

So, be ready for lots of fun and laughter!

Watch the video of us playing Snorta! 'Oink.. Oink.. Oink Woof.. Oink.. Oink Woof Meow Froggg.. Oink Woof Meow Froggg Quack B~'

H A P P Y B I R T H D A Y, ANdyStorm!{Tiramisu cake - his favorite}

{Birthday presents - hope you like them}

{Cousins* - forever and always}

To end this post.. here is--
the photos of the birthday boy and u s;Cousins! x
L o v e P e a c e J o y !

Photos and video credit to: ANdyStorm, leongraphy

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SINGYEE'S 21ST BIRTHDAY

2011-11-20T11:37:00.028+08:00

Sing Yee's 21st birthday was celebrated at Treehouse Villas @ Changi. A traditional Balinese style resort - using materials like teak and palm wood, stones and patches of grass. It is combined with modern amenities to complete user conveniences. Definitely a great place to do nothing! Eat, drink and be lazy! *Today I don't feel like doing anything~ ♫

{Reception - welcoming}

{Bedroom with balcony - spacious and gracious}

Friday night stay over was one of the best nights I have ever had. So long-- I had an enjoyable night with the girlfriends. We were like a family staying under one roof... having really good barbecue food and nice conversations, playing mahjong and watching shows. We even have nasi lemak for supper before we went to bed at around 5-ish.

{Real men cook - mouthwatering food}

{Open concept living hall and kitchen - family friendly}

Saturday morning was a blessing... woke up next to the girlfriends and had McDonald's breakfast together! *Nom nom* After filling our stomachs, we played a few rounds of Cluedo... I just can't get enough of it. A G A I N , A G A I N ! I always dream of being a private investigator! Kekekekeke~~

Before any guests arrived, we were 'half alive'... took turns to drag ourselves to the bathroom. All dressed up to meet her families and friends in the evening... loud and boisterous atmosphere met us as the crowd came.

She ordered food catering and I really like the sotong you tiao! Not to forget her salted caramel birthday cake was awesome too!

{Sing Yee - bubbly and cheerful}

with
FAMILIES AND FRIENDS

Once again...

Be Happy, Stay Healthy!

I really have so much fun...

one of the memorable days

with the girlfriends,

through day and night.

To end this post.. here is--
a photo of the girlfriends;Favorite Girls! x
T h a n k Y o u for E v e r y t h i n g!

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YVONNE'S 21ST BIRTHDAY

2011-11-12T02:33:00.026+08:00

Yvonne's 21st birthday was celebrated at Aloha Loyang Resort (Terrace 10 Jupiter). It is situated along the peaceful Pasir Ris Beach for everyone to enjoy a different experience. There is always something fun for everyone throughout the stay if we make use of the great facilities; Arcade, BBQ Pit, Children Playroom, Swimming Pool, Tennis Court, etc.

As I had to work, I arrived at the decorated chalet late... in the night. It is Color themed birthday party! I was dressed in Purple. The girls and I were all dressed up in different colors; Gi Siang in Yellow, Sing Yee in Orange, Ying Hui in Green. We, and the boys, sure did brighten up the atmosphere.

The Pool Terrace is a Double Storey Unit with 4 rooms; 2 Queen 4 Single. We occupied the double single bedroom on the 2nd storey for awhile before her other friends requested to have a space in the room for them to play mahjong... therefore we gave up the room.

Needless to say, there is food catering... but that's not all, there is also barbecue food too. We can't stop eating, reason being that food was being served to our table.

Food temptation!

Before the cake cutting session, we presented our creatively wrapped gifts for her. We hope that you like the gifts~

Tinker Bell, her favorite.

Her birthday cake and cupcakes...

look delicious~

The birthday girl, and us.
Jonathan x Wee Kiat x Sing Yee x Yvonne x Ying Hui x Gi Siang x Jia Qi x Chee Fun

To end this post.. here is--

a photo of Yvonne and her Tinker Bell cake;

Smile Always! x

Photos credit to: gisiang

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Where do I begin.

2011-11-01T00:34:00.040+08:00

The dark side of my mind-- too many thoughts in my head right now.

Falling out of my dreams, suffering every day.
Hearing the voices of pain, finding the right way.
Feeling the rage deep inside, oh- what should i say?

Time alone will tell me.. who can I count on through thick and thin. I always want somebody, someone like you who gave me life and taught me how to live it. I can understand why you left me.. well, who will want to be with a suffering soul who always lose control of her emotions. I can say I tried to move on but.. I'm happier, happier waiting. #blessme

No one yet has replaced you.. I have to admit there are times I thought I found someone new. But with every step I take, every move I make.. there always come a point, where I say, "U-turn! No one deserve my love more than you!" Yes, I've been hurt by you.. yet I choose to stay because you're the one worth suffering for.

This journey; 1 step forward, 3 steps backward. Sometimes I just get tired but somehow I get that motivation to not give up. Well, it does't matter how slow I go-- so long I don't stop, right? #fighton

At least I feel close to you.. I keep your words deep within. Maybe someday you will see the changes in me? It doesn't matter where I come from.. only matters where I'm going.. you taught me that anything is possible. Oh I believe in miracles but..

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[Well, life is unpredictable...]

A few days ago, a friend left for another world.. many were deeply saddened to learn of his death. I teared up a little.. thinking of the happy times we spent playing basketball together.

That's when I began to feel and think a lot.. I thought we have to find time to reconnect with our old friends before it's too late. There are many times when I just kind of want to get together, spend days and nights with loved one.. I believe we will enjoy our time together as well as apart.

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[Well, tomorrow may never come...]

I don't want to wait till tomorrow. I want to spend all my time with the people I love in my life. And that includes you! When I think of how much my family means to me, true friends too come to mind. Not a day goes by when I don't think about the important people in my life. They mean the world to me. That's because they're all a part of me. Their happiness means a lot to me. And nothing beats being with people you love.

I wish you know how much you mean to me.. whenever we meet together is when I'm at my happiest. Seeing you smiling and enjoying yourselves makes me happy as well. Every time that happens it's like a picture perfect moment for me. I wish I could freeze that moment for a life time.

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[True; we only live once, let's make the best of it...]

In the same week, I got to catch up with two old friends on internet..

One, is my childhood friend who was in the same kindergarten class as me. His brother was in the same kindergarten class as my elder brother. Till today, our mothers are in contact. Sometimes, my mother will talk to me about the brothers.. I would just listen to her. Until that day, I decided to find them on Facebook.

Another, is a friend I know in a 3-days day camp. I'm glad he found me.. it has been years since we last chatted on MSN. We used to talk every night on MSN until -blank- I can't remember when we stopped. Good thing, he remembers me! I like him for he has a positive thinking mindset. Also he could tell that I aren't happy at that moment.

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[I'm here waiting to be there...]

Here I am-- to remind everyone, it is important to treasure the people around us. We never know when they will be gone. We cannot waste time when we are aware that life is precious.

A friend also reminds me; we don't need to prove anything to anyone. As long as we stay true to ourselves; be a filial child, be a good sibling and be a sincere friend. Most importantly, we should be kind to everyone, for we are all fighting a hard battle.

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[Till here...]

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A 'Happy Halloween Night'

2011-10-31T01:37:00.027+08:00

I spent a well-planned 'Happy Halloween Night' with my family, and Gabriel, in our neighborhood. It was our mother's decision, therefore we went along together. Even though I know it will be boring but I don't want to miss out spending time with my family.

Just being with my family makes me happy...

Lex n' Doris

Rick n' Joy

Everyone who attended this event, organized by the community, was given a horn-like headband that can light up... the crowd. There are many kids dressed up but.......... obviously, it doesn't feel like a halloween gathering.

However, we should be glad the organizers had included a horror maze to make up for atmosphere. That's the only game I participated in... and it completely freaked me out! Well, I'm a very timid person! I get scare when people scream...

He is-- Gabriel. We're not related! But the cuteness factor in him attracted more attention and received more care from us. Therefore, my brother decided to fork out his own money to treat his little boy to food and games. We regarded him as our brother.

Gabriel introduced himself to us and said, "I'm Gabriel. Gabriel is an angel..." and so on. I also googled his name and it stated, "Gabriel, God is my strength; is an angel who typically serves as a messenger to humans from God." We were truly amazed by his intellect.

Before we went in to the maze, he asked if we are scare and said, "We don't have to be scared. God is with us." True enough, he wasn't as afraid as me when we went through the horror maze.

We decided to queue for the specially shaped balloons. I decided to have a rabbit carrying a carrot. We also have Elmo, heart, flower and Casper! ♥

That night, Gabriel made me feel so special! He said, "You look like a princess!" A stranger made me smile in my heart! ヽ(＾▽＾*)ﾉ♪

To end this post.. here is--

a photo of my family and I;

Not-so-HALLOWEEN 2011! x

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Somewhere beyond..

2011-10-21T23:06:00.003+08:00

"Part of me is looking forward to the future with them... to create more memories together. But who will know where tomorrow will bring us to. Promises, are just our way of ordering the future, making it predictable and reliable... though we know changes take place. However, what matters is today we are standing strong AS ONE! And so... without fear, we move on as the day passes."

“Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past, stop planning the future, stop figuring out precisely how we feel, stop deciding exactly what we want, AND JUST SEE WHAT HAPPENS.”

"Eventually all the pieces will fall into place... until then we gotta laugh at the confusion, live for the moment and know that, EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON."

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ANdy's Commissioning Parade

2011-10-19T23:59:00.001+08:00

You have a long way to go but you have also come so far..

so don't give up, don't give in, and don't back down!

xxx

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月亮代表我你的心

2011-10-17T11:11:00.001+08:00

Just promise me you'll think of me | Every time you look up in the sky and see a star | Cause I'm a space-bound rocketship and your heart's the moon | And I'm aimin' right at you | Right at you~

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101007

2011-10-10T11:11:00.004+08:00

The game is on again, a lover or a friend..
THE WINNER TAKES IT ALL!

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071007

2011-10-07T11:11:00.002+08:00

Vaguely, too, I remember, I was in your arms, thinking I belonged there..

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A Gathering of Friends!

2011-10-05T17:10:00.001+08:00

Good Day! Good Time! A picnic gathering at Fort Canning Park with the youthful friends.. it's nice to see everyone coming together. A fun time, with good food..

Hi-Tea Bubble Tea, Finger Lickin' Good! food, Delicious and Fluffy Muffins

Play charades..

Nerissa, Jannah, Ariff, James, Ain, Jasmine, Chin Wei

Nerissa, Ariff, Jannah, Ain, Lisa

I, and Jasmine (Peace)

They surprised the birthday girls..Ain and Lisa

These girls are awesomely cool..*imagine a magazine shoot*

Nerissa, Vivian, Serena, Ain

That's all for the get together!

Housewarming Party

2011-10-04T11:59:00.001+08:00

If you didn't already know, we have moved to Hougang sometime in May. I had a hard time tidying up my room.. there are so many little things I want to keep for memories sake but my room is very small I had to store my stuff into carton boxes. Until today, there are 3 boxes laying around and I don't know where should I place my things if I unpack them! ☹

Anyway, we threw a housewarming party on September 4.. more than 3 months after we moved into the new house, due to our busy schedules. We invited our family and friends, as well as our neighbors, to present our new house to them.

A few weeks before the gathering.. my parents ordered buffet catering (9 courses), recommended by my dad's friend. We received many compliments on the food.. even after hours, the food was delicious! We are glad that nothing really went to waste..

It was definitely a packed house.. we were busy playing host. My grandparents and my aunts and uncles, as well as my cousins were the first to arrive. Then more friends came.. everyone's friends! It was really cool seeing everyone interacts.. I just love seeing the people who have touched our lives having a good time in our home.

The love of a family is...LIFE'S GREATEST BLESSING!

The girls...
The boys...

Friends are like, family. They change your life just by being a part of it. They make you laugh a little louder, smile a little bigger. They will be there to wipe your tears, give you courage and strike your fears. They will guide you, cheer you on, hold your hand and get you through the hard times. They share the good times and help out by listening during the bad times. You will feel happy and complete around them.

Brother and his OCs...

I'm glad they take such good care of my brother. He has always been a more rebellious boy.. we want to see him grow up to be a responsible man. Someone who will take care of the family and regards us as a priority.

Brother and his friends...

The boys who will visit us almost every weekend.. they will call me, 'sister!' It makes me feel like I'm respected. Well.. after so many years have passed, it is good to see them close.

After most of the guests left, Doris guided me in mixing mocktails.. I had lots of fun tasting the non-alcoholic mixed drinks..

MMMMm.. Mocktail to end the day!
PERFECT DAY!

We would like to thank everyone who came to our housewarming party! x)

GISIANG'S 21ST BIRTHDAY

2011-09-24T03:04:00.022+08:00

Gi Siang's 21st birthday was celebrated at NSRCC Safra Resort (10 Changi Coast Walk). A lovely get-away with all the comforts of home and the conveniences of facilities.. the two-storey bungalow has two cosy bedrooms, spacious living and dining, as well as a well-equipped kitchen.

With a little help from her friends, they decorated a 'birthday bungalow' with banners and balloons. It was in yellow, yellow and more yellow! Yellow is great! It is the colour of smiley.. showing happiness! ☺

Her dessert corner added colours and excitements to the interior. I was really excited when I saw this little corner.. the chocolate fountain certainly caught my attention. The fruits and marshmallows were prepared to dip in the chocolate fountain. There were also donuts, eclairs, macaroons, tarlets and almond jellies! Yummyyy~

Of course that is not all! She ordered food catering.. around 8 - 10 dishes. The buffet caterer is good for yam paste! Most of us like the yam paste with gingko nuts! ♥

Once we filled our stomachs, we rushed up the stairs into the bedroom and changed into the birthday outfits. The clothing theme is to wear yellow and/or brown. I put on a yellow dress with brown details.. it was actually a gift from the girls 4 years ago! I looked awkward wearing all yellow.. well, that's probably because I'm always in black/white/gray/navy blue. Also, the girls realised the dress is too short on me.. I wasn't very comfortable in it but I didn't want to spoil the atmosphere so I just went along with it. Until the girls managed to mix and match an outfit for me.. yesssss, they are great! I was wearing Yvonne's tank top, Sing Yee's short and Ying Hui's cardigan.. feel the warmth*

Then we individually designed birthday cards for her.. a last minute effort..

I, and my favorite girlfriends.

We put the presents into a bag and got her to pick one.. well, she realised we were teasing her but it was fun! Heh heh.

Represent everything of us..We hope you love the presents and cards from us!

Her other friends arrived later in the night.. everyone was enjoying the buffet food while watching the last episode of 'On The Fringe'. It was definitely a loud and boisterous atmosphere..

When all her guests arrived, it was cake cutting session. Her family and friends gathered around her.. sang birthday song.. happiest moment!

And we won't miss out on photographing a lot of her, and everyone who came together to party and celebrate her day.

She prepared a scrapbook album with decorative stickers.. we filled it with photos and words of wishes. Everyone is creative in their own way!

It was almost midnight, we managed to get the birthday girl to join us in drinking games. So long-- since our last drink together. I miss nights like these..

Around 3ish, we were feeling hungry. We had a cookout at the private barbecue pit located right at the door step. The barbecued food were good.. chicken wing and hot dog will always be my favorite!

We stayed together for awhile longer and then went our separate ways.. I'm glad Jonathan gave me a ride home. I had a chance to catch up with him..

To end this post.. here is--
a photo of the birthday girl and me;
I HOPE YOU ENJOY YOUR BIRTHDAY! x

Skinny(Pi)

2011-09-20T11:59:00.003+08:00

I was at Skinny Pizza (501 Orchard Road, #03-04/04A Wheelock Place) with Andy and Jing Long on Saturday afternoon, 20 August. Andy and I were craving pizza and then we decided to go back for, Skinny Pizza. We were not craving for the usual thick crusted pizzas. Instead, we were looking forward to have the thin and crispy pizza base.

The menu is not limited to simply pizza. The America sliders - a pair of mini burger buns, and various starters and appetizers, are popular. But we were there for the pizzas, and that was what we ordered.

The variety of toppings on offer is rather impressive. We picked the one Andy most liked, Good Ol' Ham And Cheese, and also ordered The English Breakfast. Then, we decided to order the Parsley Mashed Potato x Truffles Fries x Sweet Potato Nibblets for Just $15.

We are showing the world what we eat by taking pictures of our meals.. "In the unconscious mind, food equals love because food is our deepest and earliest connection with our caretakers." We would want to capture, collect, catalog, brag about and show off our food..

Good Ol' Ham And Cheese

The English Breakfast

The pizza is light as air, and super crispy. It comes with generous toppings of greens, which we chucked them aside. Well.. vegetable is not our kind of food. So, it is just for beautification!

Parsley Mashed Potato x Truffles Fries x Sweet Potato Nibblets

I love the truffles fries.. it looks so ordinary but the smokey aftertaste is just wowww! The sweet potato nibblets is awesomeee.. sweetness with a tint of salty vibe in it. Great consistency!

SEE! It looks like they were doing one of those magazine shoot.. in love with food..

FOOD = LOVE
Photographer: Andy | Model: Jing Long

I, and the favorite boys...

Skinny Pizza has one of the best service. Their staff maintain a cheerful and professional manner at all times. They are exceptionally helpful too! ☺

This is-- our creation..

Made of argula leaves, tomato, fries, pizza base..
'0'

Signing off.

Truely Madly Deeply

2011-09-18T22:52:00.012+08:00

// I try to talk to you, but I don't know what to say. I am afraid you don't want me to say anything. So I don't. But inside of me there are words waiting to come out. And tell you how I feel- like how I miss you. And how I love you despite my broken heart. And how I need you in my life. And especially how much I want you. But those words may forever stay in my heart- locked inside. Sometimes I wonder if there are words locked inside you too... but I'll never know.

Prawn-fishing @ Bishan

2011-09-14T11:59:00.050+08:00

I was at Bishan Prawning by Hai Bin (603 Sin Ming Avenue) with Andy, Jing Long and Josh on Sunday afternoon, 14 August. I used to go there with the girls and their friends, loved it! So.. when the guys decided to go prawning, I was into it.

* The rates for prawning: 1 hour - $15/ 2 hours - $25/ 3 hours - $30. Equipment and baits are provided.

We settled down in a spot and started enjoying the prawn fishing experience.. Josh is kind enough to help us put the baits (chicken heart? chicken liver?) into the hooks. I could never imagine myself touching the chicken heart/liver! NEVER. If I was forced, instead of chicken heart/liver, I will choose to put cockles as bait.

Chicken hearts!? or Chicken livers!?
Yucksssss.. but I think I ate chicken hearts before! :|

How many prawns will we catch to put into this keep net?
I was expecting at least 20 prawns.. but *you will find out at the end of this post*

After more than half an hour... #likealongtime

We were so excited when Jing Long pulled out a prawn from the pool.. "I want to take a photo with the prawn!" "I want to take a photo of the prawn!" We sounded like a suaku (sooah-koo) kia..

Since Josh has experience in prawning.. he was guiding us along throughout the whole process. I was glad he went with us! ☺

This is the 'FIRST' prawn of the day..
*HUMAN, Y U NO GIVE ME A CHANCE TO LIVE!?*

About an hour later...

I saw Andy looking bored.. we decided to challenge ourselves, "Let's see who will fish a prawn first!?" It got more fun and exciting.. we stood up in our 'ever-ready' position..

...
......
.........

I WON THE CHALLENGE!

Josh, who was teaching me how to pull out the claws from the body. He is one of my elder friend, who is also a patient man. Someone who will listen to me talk for hours.

Next, Andy caught a prawn. Josh is the last!!!!! Well, I can't remember how many more prawns we caught until Jing Long 'blur blur' released the prawns back into the pool..

Leon Graphy: "I dropped the net back into the prawn pool! !!!! Ahhhhh! !!!!! Nooooo :("

Andy Kwan: "我的天啊！KHOO JING LONG accidentally dropped our prawn net back into the pool!!!! 我们没有prawn了！AHAHAHAHAHA"

Leon Graphy: "I looked at the net like it's the titanic sinking down into the sea.. Haiiii ~"

Andy Kwan: "The reason why there's 2 prawns left is because one is dead, and the other is almost dead. Cannot swim away! AHAHAHAHAHA"

The whole situation is hilarious!!!!!

I, and the boys.TOGETHER, WE PRAWN.

(Above) These prawns are in Josh's friends' keep net!

We enjoyed prawning.. need lots of patience.. but it is fun and challenging! Besides prawning, we can cook our catches at the barbecue pit.

** Charcoal, fire starters, satay sticks and salt are provided.

...clearing the barbecue pit

...washing the prawns

...setting up a charcoal barbecue

...fresh prawn

...sprinkle salt on the prawns

...barbecuing the prawns

...barbecued prawns

While we were peeling the shells from the prawns, chewing on prawns.. a crowd came.. more people, more fun!?

More competitive!

I can't wait for our next prawning session~~

H2H

2011-09-12T23:59:00.001+08:00

Heart-to-Heart! x

MAAD Pyjamas

2011-09-12T11:59:00.000+08:00

MAAD Pyjamas @ Red Dot Design Museum
(28, Maxwell Road, Ground Floor)

Will be there again..

'Come Home to nex for National Day'

2011-09-09T11:59:00.000+08:00

I was at nex (23 Serangoon Central) with Andy on National day, 9 August. We were craving ramen and then he decided on Men-ichi Japanese Ramen (#B1-79). I’m not a picky eater, I like to eat well. There are only several things that don’t appeal to me. Therefore, I always get my friend to decide where to eat.

While Andy ordered Chicken Teriyaki Ramen, I had the Tonkotsu "pork bone" Shio "salt" Ramen. A cloudy white colored broth made from boiling pork bones, fat, and collagen.. topped with bean sprouts, nori, leeks, bamboo shoots, boiled egg, sliced cha shu and served with noodles. The set meal comes with tori no karaage and chawanmushi. Nom nom~

Then, we walked through Shokutsu 10 and crowded in front of the stall selling Dorayaki. K, I didn't know that Doraemon loves Dorayaki until Andy told me. So NOOBBBBB.

As the pancake is done on the spot, we got to enjoy looking at how the pancakes are made.. pouring of pancake mixture, heating the mixture, flipping the pancake-like patty, adding the flavor, hot stamping the graphic..

I can has cheese cream dorayaki! ^^

Not until I saw the graphic on the surface of the pancake, I didn't remember how much I used to like Fiesta Cheesecake so much I could indulge in a whole Cheesecake!

Next, we headed over to Starbucks (#02-K1) and ordered our drinks. I will always order my favorite Java Chip Frappuccino without whipped cream..

Well.. Andy's favorite Strawberries & Crème Frappuccino is not available! So, he anyhowly chose Mocha Frappuccino to redeem the complimentary beverage (any size) for registering his card online. He wanted his drink to be of grande size, however he was somehow forced to order venti size. In the end, he couldn't finish it.

We walked around the shopping mall and went up to the rooftop of nex, where KidzPlay and K9 Park are located. KidzPlay is a children's playground with dry and wet interactive play equipment, while K9 Park is a dog park.

•KidzPlay•

•K9 Park•

At there.. Andy and I watched the dogs and their owners for at least an hour. We were saying dogs look like their owners.. etc. I had so much fun observing the owners training their dogs! :3-]

Then, we decided to have dessert at Dessert Story (#03-17). Andy had Mango Snow Ice while I had Mango Pomelo & Sago. Yum yum~

That's about all on how I spent my Tuesday in nex. The best thing is we satisfied our craving for ramen. K, I'm hungry now!!!!!!!!!! #foreverhungry

To end this post.. here is--
a photo of us under the sun;Signing off.

Life goes on..

2011-08-21T00:40:00.019+08:00

Lately a lot of things have happened that make me feel the need to write about..

One very wonderful thing is that I have met my favorite boy-- we may be separated by distance but one thing remains the same I love him. I'm able to feel him in my life, all the times. He gives me peace. He gives me happiness. He gives me comfort. He has surrounded me with love and that's enough to keep me going. I may have mistaken friendship and gratitude for love. But all these happy thoughts will mean so much fun if he'd only let me be the one.. to walk with him when he wants somebody to talk with.. to sit with him when he wants some loving.. to share with him all his pleasures and sorrows too. I so badly wish that I can be there where he is.. but I know very well that he's not mine to keep. Someone somewhere can do much better than me.

// He comes and goes like the wind.

With friends like him, life gets better. I can always count on them to help me-- but today I want to tell you about my good friends. They come as a pair, for I always share my happiness with one and I always let out my sadness to another. There never has been a time when both of them leave me alone. They makes me feel so loved! Even though I have this fear they will leave me for their other half. But I would like to say to them.. when it is time to leave, please do not burden yourself with me. I'm sure, I'm certain that they worry themselves about me. I know they want me to be independent and I guess I'm learning, little by little. The greater gift I ever received was their understanding. They never give up on me and I will not let go of them.

// True best friends are the ones who stay with you through everything.

I have to pick and choose my friends.. I don't want to be with anybody. It's gotta be the great people who make me feel that I, too, can become great. With that in mind, I have to move out of my comfort zone.. I know I can do it because of a friend who has unknowingly helped me to build self confidence. He believes I can do better than I think.. I have learned that there are people out there who will catch you when you fall.

// Comfort zones are more often expanded through discomfort.

They may not always be your friends but one thing I'm sure of, I have a family I can rely on. No matter what happens I know that they will always be here for me. Tonight should be one of the best night ever.. we have a celebration that brings us closer together. I will always remember this moment of laughter and joy.. I wish I could share the happy thoughts with someone special! It is also the first time ever I saw my mom shed a tear or two over my silly actions. If I know my silly actions can make her smile.. to protect her, I would go the extra mile.

Also, we have a new member in our family-- a Jack Russell Terrier. It brings us joy.

// The greatest happiness in life comes from our family.

Another thing that happened is that I have completed the first 12 months of chiropractic adjustment. I have put in a lot of hard work to stabilize the subluxation pattern. It is time I maintain a strong stable spine and optimal nerve flow. I believe the benefits can be rewarding. I hope I will achieve the greater improvements in my health by the end of my second or third year.

// Above, Down, Inside, Out

Now I'm focusing on spending less to save money for healthcare. It is not easy for me but when I think health, I'm comfortable being frugal. Am at it. Once I have a handle on spending less, I will shift my focus to earning more. I hope next year is better than this.. looking forward to opportunities!

// Health is Wealth.

Talking about opportunities.. I have set my mind on finding a new job. It shall be six months later.. Although I have not yet reached a year in this current job but I'm sure this is not where I wanted to be. Given a chance, I will consider going back to school.

// Never too old to set another goal.

My post here shall end.

timbré @ the substation

2011-08-13T17:18:00.013+08:00

I was at timbré @ the substation (45 Armenian Street) with Andy, Jing Long and Serena on Satuday night, 16 July. It is one of the best places to hangout at night.

Timbre is open air, but covered, and features live music every night. Good atmosphere and great live music. However, the service needs to improve.

Food Menu / Drinks Menu

Deciding on what types of pizza to order.. Andy's all-time favourite is Hawaiian Pizza, and I had a craving for the famous Roasted Duck Pizza. So we decided to order Half & Half Pizza which we can choose any two toppings! Awesomeeeee!

We were served our first drinks and finger food.. the pizza took awhile but it is worth..

Baileys Irish x Shirley Temple x Virgin Margarita x Virgin Sakura

Louisina Fries

Potato Wedges

Timbre's Fried Chicken

Half Hawaiian Pizza Half Roasted Duck Pizza

Because we were early for the music.. we entertained ourselves with Andy's Samsung EX1 by camwhoring..

• US •

• Serena_Huitieme • jqmeow •

• ANdyStorm • leongraphy •

We were at our second drinks when the pizza was served.. om nom nom~ The pizza is so good.. it is fantastic!!! We wanted to order Half Buffalo Chicken Pizza Half Sunny Side Up Pizza but was told we need to wait for 30 - 45 minutes (?)

Since I brought along my photo book, we decided to doodle on it.. for memories' sake..

Jing Long • Andy • Serena

More photos... (↴)
* The flash on the EX1 is too strong!!!

The Goodfellas was performing that night.. they are great! Andy even dedicated a song to us.. but we only managed to hear them reading his message..

At the end of the night, here is-- the total bill! We actually spent $90+- on drinks..

No doubt. I love Timbré.

#justanadvice

2011-08-07T23:11:00.009+08:00

面包师给的领悟

人生没有走投无路的时候，
也没有过不去的事情，
只有过不去的心情。

就好像我们做面包一样，
要做出好吃的面包，
唯一能做的就是等。

在等待的时间里，
你或许换一个心情或是转个弯，
一样可以走到你想要的目的地。

这个结果不行就趁早放弃，
而放弃呢并不是结束，
而是另一个新的开始。

/Quoted

Dear Friends-- This Is My Perfect Moment With You

2011-07-31T11:57:00.052+08:00

Way back in 2009, I remember telling Serena over and over again how cute would it be to have a Mickey n' Minnie Mouse theme party. I said, "Mickey n' Minnie Mouse are my favourite Disney characters since I was young. Would it be a good idea for me to organise a Mickey n' Minnie Mouse theme party on my 21st?" She said, "You have an excellent idea!" I further explained that everyone will want their 21st birthday a truly memorable one.. since we are only young once, before I move into adulthood.. I will bring back my childhood memories! With that said, I got my mind set on it. I also decided I will not let anyone know about it.. I wanted to surprise them! ☺

******

2 years later.. 2011.. I decided to start planning for my 21st birthday party. But everything was not going smoothly.. I can no longer avoid sharing my ideas.. I had to call for help. Thanks god I did!!! • Andy • Gi Siang • Jing Long • Kai Xin • Serena • have helped me in one way or another. Especially Gi Siang, who encouraged me not to give up if it is what I want..

xo YEAH YEAH YEAH! I DID IT! I DID IT! xo
NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE!

I'm proud to say, I made most of the decoration myself.. design, print, cut, paste.. It takes a lot of effort and time. I'm happy that my guests liked them, and they did appreciate them! ♡♡♡

...the red and black banner with white polka dot design,
comes with Mickey n' Minnie Mouse cutout with name of invited guests

...the bottles and cans with Mickey Mouse sticker label

...the toothpicks with Mickey n' Minnie Mouse cutout label

Most of them came early to help me with decorating the room.. Kai Xin even travelled to my place to help me carry the stuff. I really appreciate everyone's help! x

After decorating the Club Room for "MEESKA MOOSKA MICKEY MOUSE" Clubhouse Party.. it is time for makeup, to look my best. I would like to thank Joyce for putting makeup on me.

While waiting for everyone to arrive~~

The Mickey n' Minnie cousins* • Andy • Cheryl • Don • Jing Long • Josh • Joyce • Meldric • Ying Zi • and Serena gathered together for great group shots! ♡♡♡ We have come this far.. to say.........

Gi Siang also invited my friends to join her in the game, 'Cluedo'. I'm happy to see them coming together.. it gave me a peaceful, easy feeling~

******

SELF-INTRODUCTION.. getting to know everyone! Well most of them already know each others.. I will always share my friendship stories with everyone.. sometimes I will bring them together and make them friends. I'M PROUD TO CALL THEM MY FRIENDS! Someone asked me this, "Aren't you afraid if someone is jealous of you and would snatch your friends away?" Honestly, there are times when I fear for 'showing off' but.. Right Believing Brings Faith.. Faith Is The Victory in Overcoming Fear..

Khim Hee • Ying Hui

Andy

******

Minnie n' friends

Dig in! officially began after we gathered for a group photooooo..... I'm glad almost everyone was dressed up as a character from Mickey n' Friends. If you know me you know I love it when YOU family n' friends will go the extra mile to make me happy.. like listening to the couple brother Lex n' Doris deciding on wearing the Mickey n' Minnie costumes.. hearing the girls • Gi Siang • Sing Yee • Ying Hui • Yvonne • discussing about their dressing.. seeing the boys n' girls turning up in accessories to match the theme.. etc. It really made me smile~~ ☺

O-M-N-O-M-N-O-M-

This is-- the list of foods (↴) Hmmmm I ordered way too much... desserts??? However I did make an estimate, *if everyone will to take 7 - 8 pieces... blah blah blah* Whatever it is, I would rather have 'too much' than 'not enough'. Well I always feel disappointed when there is a 'Too Many People, Not Enough Food' situation in any events. So, it's NOT going to happen in my party..

The simple but delicious desserts are too much of a sweet thing for some guests. But I'm lovin' it!!!!! Here I would like to thank Gi Siang for recommending the desserts to me.. I also would like to thank Andy for placing an order for pizzas n' drumlets..

PIZZAS (from Pizza Hut)

x Hawaiian x Chicken Supreme x Turkey Bacon 'N' Shrooms X Ocean Catch x Drumlets x

DESSERTS (from petitfour)

x Apple Crumble x Banana Crumble x Mango Crumble x Choco Divine x Nutella Dream x Orea Addiction x Mango Flush x Black Forest x Bananier x Strawberry Cheesecake x Classic Cheesecake x Caramel Cheesecake x Fruit Tartlets x Choc Tartlets x Mango Mousse x Chocolate Mousse x Mocha Mousse x

Everyone was engrossed in something.. the girls were watching "Love Keeps Going".. the boys were having a conversation about National Service.. etc. I could join them to watch one of my favourite Taiwanese drama.. or hear what they are doing..

BUT....................

I was just sitting there admiring the scene of YOU family n' friends gathered together to celebrate my 21st, a major milestone in everyone's life. As I wish, to see everyone side by side.. together forever, never apart*

Cake cutting session..........

My One n' Only Unique Minnie Cake, along with 20 Incredibly Cute Mickey n' Minnie Cupcakes customised by Sweetest Moments. To my surprise, knowing that I have a soft spot for cupcakes, brother Lex n' Doris brought along Mickey n' Friends Cupcakes for us! D.I.S.N.E.Y

LOVELY CUPCAKES x SWEET DESIGNS

A GROUP PHOTO with • Andrew • Andy • Cheryl • Chin Jie • Chun Long • Don • Doris • Gillman • Gi Siang • Jie Hui • Josh • Joyce • Kai Xin • Khim Hee • Meldric • Serena • Sing Yee • Wei Hong • Wen Yu • Ying Hui • Ying Zi • was taken before they sang 'Happy Birthday' to the 21 years old me! Well I always feel awkward when people sing to me.. As I stood next to the cake, looking happy.. I don't know how I was supposed to act??? -youtellmelah-

Everyone was excited to pull the string of the party poppers.. *POP*POP*POP*POP*POP* while I watched them firing numerous colourful ribbons at me!!!!! -shiokonly-

Here it is-- yet another awkward moment when everyone's eyes were on me.. as I smiled for the camera.. made a wish.. blew the candle out.. cut the cake.. served everyone..

I WISH FOR HEALTH, WEALTH, HAPPINESS! x

J-I-A-Q-I-

The birthday cake covered and decorated with fondant, is rather difficult to cut through. We sounded like sadists, 'AHHHHH... Meldric is gonna operate on the Minnie's skull!!!' It was nothing but a heartache to watch the 'operation' LIVE. -muahaha-

I was so excited when I saw the Minnie cake, as well as the Mickey n' Minnie cupcakes! NICE DECORATION.. but I won't say they taste delicious. Well, there is a price to pay for beauty?! Here I would like to thank the girls • Gi Siang • Sing Yee • Ying Hui • for collecting my cake n' cupcakes. I would also like to thank Meldric who stepped forward to help cut the cake into pieces for the guests.

Photo-taking session after cake cutting..........

They are-- my best friends (↴), aside from my family. There are a few other old friends that couldn't make it to my party.. ☹ but I'm sure they have their reasons for not attending and I have to understand. Well I have known each n' everyone of them for years, to be exact, more than 5 years. How time flies.. we have all grown up..

As we go on, we remember
All the times we had together
And as our lives change, come whatever
We will still be, friends forever~~

• Kai Xin • Jia Qi • Khim Hee •

• Ying Hui • Jia Qi • Gi Siang • Sing Yee •

• Wen Yu • Chin Jie • Wei Hong • Jie Hui • Jia Qi • Khim Hee • Andrew •

La, la, la, la; yeah, yeah, yeah
La, la, la, la, we will still be friends forever~~

FRIENDS-- pull together, not apart.

All I want is to spend time and, of course, take lots of photos with the very important people of my life. Photos keep the memories alive, close to me..

Dearest family--

xo Brother Lex xo
xo Brother Gillman xo
xo Doris xo
• brothers n' sister •
• Lex n' Doris •

Dearest friends--

girls'

xo Serena xo
xo Cheryl xo
xo Joyce xo
xo Ying Zi xo
boys'

xo Andrew xo
xo Chin Jie xo
xo Jie Hui xo
xo Wei Hong xo
xo Wen Yu xo
xo Jing Long xo
xo Meldric xo

I specially made the Mickey n' Minnie polka dot instax film out of a cardboard. Don't you think it is cute? ☆〜 I also made use of a book, with coptic stitch binding, I received from Jasmine on my 19th birthday.. it is one of my favourite gift! Finally.. it is filled with photos and messages. Here I would like to thank Jing Long for being photographer of the day..

I would also like to thank everyone for their lovely messages, it means so much to me! ♡♡ Ahh Yes.. I used instax mini film Mickey n' Friends to take a photo with every individual. Mickeylicious n' Minnielicious~~

******

Did I mention before, I'm always proud of the one who suggests to unwrap the presents infront of everyone's presence.. Well it makes me feel happy to know that they are proud of their gift.. they love their gift for me!

CLICK Dear Friends-- Thank You All

Gi Siang • Sing Yee • Ying Hui • Yvonne • and Christina
...for the Agnes B purse, Uniqlo Mickey Mouse shirt,
Dove, Kit Kat, Meiji chocolate and card!

• Andy • Ashton • Joyce • Kai Zhi • Li Mei •
...for the Mickey Mouse customised thumbdrive, Mickey n' Minnie mug,
Disney 4 leave clover keychain and card!

• Don •
...for the Mickey n' Minnie (3D Puzzle) villa assemble and handmade card!

• Ying Zi •
...for the Mickey Mouse necklace and handmade card!

• Josh •
...for the Dewar's (whisky) and perserved dried mango?

• Serena •
...for the photo frame stand!

• Khim Hee •
...for the Minnie Mouse pen, Mickey n' Minnie Mouse sweets and chocolates,
red packet and card!

• Kai Xin •
...for the dove necklace and card!

• Chin Jie • Jie Hui • Wei Hong • Wen Yu •
...for the rose/white sparkling grape juice drink,
Mickey Mouse keychain and card!

• Doris n' her mum •
...for the Mickey Mouse tissue storage box,
Minnie Mouse cushion, Mickey Mouse mug and keychain

• Cheryl • for the necklace
• Meldric • Jing Long • for the dreamcatcher
• Wei Jie • for the Absolut Citron

This is-- one of the most memorable moment of my 21st party (↴).. our dearest Serena, together with Jing Long and Josh, thought of a way to scare me! First, Josh pulled the string of the party popper in my face, "POP!" and tadah win (liao)~ Just because they forgot to snap a picture of my shocked face.. they decided to do it AGAIN!!! WITH A USED PARTY POPPER.. Well I shielded away..

Evil laugh~~

******

Past midnight.. a group of us were playing 'Cluedo' while the rest of us decided to play drinking games. We popped open the bottle of Dewar's (whisky) that Josh gave me.. well he wanted to get us drunk. However, we are not spontaneous.. we gave up the half-empty bottle of whiskey seated beside us as we tossed and turned in bed.

At 3ish am.. • Andy • Don • Jing Long • Josh • Joyce • Serena • Wei Jie • Ying Zi • got hyperactive! They had balloon fight! Wild Kidz*

CLICK Dear Friends-- This Is Your Moment

Here is-- the end of the party!

xoxo

With Much Love
Tan Jiaqi

Dear Friends-- This Is Your Moment

2011-07-23T03:32:00.015+08:00

Dear Friends--
This Is Your Moment!

#CRAZYBALLOONFIGHTS

x Andy x Don x Jing Long x Josh x Joyce x Serena x Wei Jie x Ying Zi x

These are my friends, this is who they have been for always. These are my days, this is how they stay. These are my friends, this is who they will remain forever.

These are my friends... This is my life.

XOXO

With Much Love
Tan Jiaqi

Dear Friends-- Thank You All

2011-07-15T04:44:00.001+08:00

Dear Friends--
Thank You All for the Birthday Wishes!

x Ng Kai Xin x Ho Wei Jie x Michael Ng x Dawn Poh x Andy Kwan x Don Koh x Tay Boon Yan x Tay Kai Zhi x Lisa Goh x Ashton Khoo x Andrew Tan x Darren Loke x

(via Call/SMS)

x Dixon Weijie Hoh x HongPeng Yeo x Kst Ting x Jer ThestudentwithnoItknowledge x Rachel Chew x Leon Graphy x KaiXin Ng x Belle Mah Mingying x Gene Kwok x Bryan Wong x Serena O. Huitième x Van Jordan x James Ho Zhao Lun x Tzewei Chua x Yu Zhong Ng x Moh San x Chris Chord x Louisure Tan x Celeste Wong x Yvonne Shu Jun x Ni Quan Jia Si x Joshua Lim x Andrew Yong x Boon Han Ker x Nerissa Heng x Cindy Tan x Dzul Swarvoski x Kenny Tan x Jonah Kyoshi Cheow x Jiaen Annisan x Rayne Jt x Samuel Shen SanMao x Leo Zubin x Ang Chee Fun x Jovian Josiah Lim x Boon Yan x Angel Wu x Serene Kowie x David Rave Zhong Qijie x Danny Ooi x Alice Tay Yi Yan x Meris Ngheen x Lee Jia Feng x Meldric ShibalNom x Jianping Tay x Qian Han x Josh Soo x Owanting Oo x Esther Joanna Ang x Zack Pong x Sam Weizheng x Tong Lee x Ming Wei Predictable x Shafizah Amaryllis x Wennjet Lim x James Chow x Fiona Woon Xin Ni x YanLiang YahooChua x Kailin Guetta x Toh Zheng Yang x Elton Says x Valerie Ang x Jiale Yu x Qianling' Laughlikemad x Choo Sheng En x Sarah Wong x Victoria Poh x Joanne Chan x Kerin Kok x Tay Liang Yu x Ariff Muhammad x Anna Tay x Phatz Patrick x Ee Von G x Calviin Tan x Ct Nur Hazilawani x Axw Xiuwen Belle x Junhao Huang x Ray Ong x Jason Wee Han Loong x Joanne Riiyo x Melvin Sng x Norshima Darwis x Michelle Tan x Stephen Silvaraj x Solomen KingSolo's x Emily Oh x Vanessa Lim x Geraldine Teo x Choo Zhong Yang x Ca-may Foo x Juliana Sng x Ruby Zhang x Han Ming Koh x Dorries Lok x Daniel Dano Fong x Chang Rui x Tan Yu Teng x Diana Sng x SpenSer Lim x Tan Chin Jie x Corina Tham x Gene Viene x Baoquan Goh x Cydney Alex x

(via Facebook)

x vvejie x dawnrockka x hpility x leongraphy x happygolucky x luohanping x Swiszy x AgathaCHH x missingsundays x fynwu x dcannx x Dream2breakaway x christgoh x josh524 x Lyinghui x fenniie x getme0ut x yvonneshujun x forest330 x vonneyuwenn x CherryBonbonn x lilyellowlorry x elainegoei x BenGohh x Chiyeu x smithankyou x tcuicui x

(via Twitter)

Thank You All for Coming to My 21st Birthday Party!

x Andrew x Andy x Cheryl x Chin Jie x Chun Long x Don x Doris x Gillman x Gi Siang x Jie Hui x Jing Long x Josh x Joyce x Kai Xin x Khim Hee x Meldric x Serena x Sing Yee x Wei Hong x Wen Yu x Ying Hui x Ying Zi x

All in all, I'd like to thank each and everyone of you for making this special day one to remember! I hope everyone had a good time! I have determined that you-all are worth the effort, time and money I put into this celebration! I'd also especially like to thank the people namely • Andy • Gi Siang • Jing Long • Kai Xin • Serena • Shi Xuan • Sing Yee • Ying Hui • who have helped me in one way or another. The party won't be as successful without their help.

Looking back at the past, everyone has helped me a lot. My family and friends all play a role in my life. You-all have made me into who I am today. I'm proud of each and everyone of you. Thank you-all for being with me and never giving up on me. YOU family and friends mean so much to me, and I look forward to our future fun!

XOXO

With Much Love
Tan Jiaqi

NDP 2011 Preview (@ Marina Bay)

2011-07-13T00:23:00.011+08:00

At the float @ Marina Bay for NDP 2011 preview
with my family and cousins*

Second Row: Cousins*
First Row: Family

The best part of the celebration...

LIGHTING x BUBBLES x FIREWORKS x CONFETTI x ANTHEM

Photos credit to: leongraphy
Edited by: yours truly me

Singapore Social Media Day

2011-06-28T23:29:00.007+08:00

Photo credits to: 1stJournal

"Social Media is so powerful that it can be used to change the world." #sgsmd

@happyygolucky
lurve'ya sister

@leongraphy
lurve'ya brother

@forest330
lurve'ya daughter

lurve'them cousins*

I caught the moon for you!

2011-06-16T23:11:00.005+08:00

Thinking about you, thinking about me, thinking about us.

#icanfeelyouthinkingofme

I'll Remember You

2011-06-15T23:11:00.009+08:00

It has been so long since we have talked
I hope that things are still the same
hoping they will never change
cause what we had can't be replaced
don't let our memories fade away
keep me in your heart for always

You made me believe
that I can do almost anything
stood right by me
through the tears through everything

I'll remember you,
and baby that's forever true
you're the one that I'll always miss
never thought it would feel like this
I'll be there for you,
no matter what you're goin' through
in my heart you'll always be, forever baby
I'll remember you

I promise you I won't forget the times we shared, the tears we cried
You'll always be the sun in my sky
It may be fate that brings us back to meet again someday
Even though we go seprate ways

You made me believe
that I can do almost anything
You stood right by me
through the tears through everything

I'll remember yooooou,
and baby that's forever true
you're the one that I'll always miss
never thought it would feel like this
I'll be there for yooooou,
no matter what your goin' through
in my heart you'll always be, forever baby
I'll remember you

If the day should come when you need someone
(you know that i'll follow)
I will be there
Don't ever let there
be a doubt in your mind
'cause I'll remember you, you

I'll remember you,
and baby that's forever true
you're the one that I'll always miss
never thought it would feel like this
I'll be there for you,
no matter what your goin' through
in my heart you'll always be, forever baby
I'll remember you

Forever baby, I'll remember you~

I'll be here, wishing I could be there~

2011-06-12T03:18:00.001+08:00

I'm still here, I'm still smiling, I'm still in love with you.

How long have you been friends?

2011-06-12T03:07:00.002+08:00

We'll smile and say, "Almost forever".

#DumbOrNot

2011-06-04T03:23:00.011+08:00

My family has officially moved out of Bishan to Hougang...

That Saturday morning I was feeling... "This is the fresh, that fresh feeling~" HEAVEN YEAH, it feels like we are starting afresh, somewhere unfamiliarly new. I just lay in bed and stared at the ceiling for a day... I got myself used to the small room.

The next day was Sunday. I was to meet the rest at Eunos MRT Station as we were going to visit the RSAF OPEN HOUSE'11. I searched from gothere.sg and found that I was supposed to board bus 112 and alight 6 stops later to board bus 25/55/854. After I boarded bus 112, I forgot the number of stops later I should alight. I alighted at a bus stop in Hougang Ave 3 to check the board for bus 25/55/854. Lucky for me, there are bus 22/55/854 at this bus stop. I boarded bus 854 and double checked with the bus driver if the bus will stop at Opposite Eunos MRT Station. Then, I was distracted by two China men who were as lost as me. I watched them went forward to ask the bus driver if they should alight at this particular stop... when I turned to my right, I spotted the train tracks. But the bus driver had already shut the door... I had to alight at the next stop.

That night, we went our separate way home from Seragoon. I decided to take the bus... boarded bus 101, not knowing where I should alight. When the bus drove along Buangkok Green, I was hoping it will turned to the left to Hougang Street 93 but it turned to the right. The next bus stop is along Buangkok Link. I alighted immediately... walked to Buangkok Green... waited for bus 88.

On Monday, I have to find my way to my workplace... I was supposed to take bus 161 to Hougang Bus Interchange. Instead, I took bus 88. I know it will stop at a bus stop near Hougang MRT Station but I couldn't find out which is the bus stop. I gave up and ended up in Pasir Ris Bus Interchange. At Pasir Ris MRT Station, I was shooked with the crowd. "Your attention please... there is a train service delay..." Bad start of the week. Bad start of the day. I WAS SO ANGRY WITH MYSELF!

The worst part of that Monday was... I climbed the stairs to the 8th storey, without knowing there is another lift in this block! #DumbOrNot

On Tuesday, all's well. I just have to spend more time on bus 88, travelling from Bishan to Hougang.

On Wednesday night, I decided to explore Hougang (around ave 4 and ave 8) with the mother. It was a good tour. I got myself more familiar with this area.

The next day, I met up with the girlfriends. We stayed out in Orchard till 11 plus in the night. I thought I will be able to catch the last bus 161... but I was wrong! Unlike bus 410W, the last timing for bus 161 is 11:30pm... EARLY UH! I decided to take bus 112, hoping it will stop near my place. That was when I realised how dumb can I be... I took the train from Dhoby Ghaut to Hougang and I took bus 112 that stop by at the bus stop infront of Kovan. Still, I was thankful to my mother who brought me to explore Hougang the day before. If not, I will have completely no idea where to alight.

Hai... I JUST HATE BEING LOST!

Friends Will Be Friends

2011-06-04T03:10:00.009+08:00

Right Till The End

Photos credit to: leongraphy

It's not easy love, but you've got friends you can trust,
Friends will be friends,
When you're in need of love they give you care and attention,
Friends will be friends,
When you're through with life and all hope is lost,
Hold out your hand cos friends will be friends right till the end~

IT ALL BEGINS WITH A SMILE...

2011-05-30T23:41:00.012+08:00

Smile And The Whole World Smiles With You

Photos credit to: leongraphy

When you're smiling, keep on smiling
The whole world smile with you
And when you're laughing, keep on laughing
The sun comes shining through

But when you're crying, you bring on the rain
So stop your frowning... be happy again
Cause when you're smiling... keep on smiling
The whole world smile with you~

YINGZI'S 18TH BIRTHDAY

2011-05-29T01:57:00.036+08:00

Yingzi turned 18 on 16th May 2011... she celebrated her birthday in the most spectacular hotel, Marina Bay Sands Singapore - Orchid Suite. She invited her large group of friends, mostly of the SG & MY bloggers. Oh Yes! Her friends from Malaysia specially travelled to Singapore for her... how sweet of them. I would say I'm glad to meet new people, even though I have to admit I stay closer to the cousins*...

Before we met Ying Zi and her friends, we were busy preparing the presents... GOLDEN HELLO KITTY MAHJONG SET & LOVELY HELLO KITTY BALLOONS!!!!!

Writing our wishes for her on the balloons...'YINGZI, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
BE HAPPY AND STAY HEALTHY!'

We had a long walk, under the scorching sun, from Raffles Place to Marina Bay Sands. Joyce and I were complaining that our feet hurt so badly from walking in high heels, but I didn't want to change into the Oxford flats. I JUST LOVE BEING TALL!

Once we stepped into the hotel room, we secretly hid the presents behind the curtain... we were worried that our surprise plan will be exposed!!! Therefore, we kept our eyes focused towards the direction of the curtain, even while we were camwhoring...

I think it was a good idea that Ying Zi ordered from KFC & Pizza Hut to fill our stomach before drinking... Oh No! I don't drink. Some of them do.

The hotel guests are allowed to visit the Sands Skypark (340m-long and a 150m swimming pool, set on top of the world’s largest public cantilevered platform on 57th floor) for free! 不去白不去。。。#SoSingaporean huh.

HERE WE ARE...

Sands SkyParkWe are 200m above the city...
the view is MAGNIFICENT!

It feels like I'm on the plane;
UP ABOVE,
looking out of the window at the city!

with the beloved friends...
ANdyStorm leongraphy Dream2breakaway

You can swim and have fun while......having a breathtaking experience at such high level.

Sad to say, the hotel guests can only invite 3 friends at a time... I was hoping the cousins* can take a group photo at this beautiful, serene place. Oh well~

The rest were excited to visit the Sands SkyPark too! That's why we didn't stay in there so long. It was also about time to cut the cake and sing the song...

BIRTHDAY 웃

Making her wishes...
I wish, I wish, With all my heart~~~

Of course we didn't forget about the presents for her... *ta-ta-dahs* キタ━━━(゜∀゜)━━━!!!!! < I vaguely remembered her surprised expression when she saw the Hello Kitty balloons... and I'm so sure she loves the Hello Kitty mahjong set!

Ying Zi and her Cousins*♥♥♥

WOAH! PRESENT UNWRAPPED!

HELLO KITTY AND US!

♩ ♪ ♫ ♬ ♩ ♪ ♫ ♬

YING ZI AND EVERYONE IN?
IN!!!!!!!!!

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O.O WHERE DID THIS 'INSANE' GUY COME FROM?*jaw-dropping*

I was so shocked when he came out from no where... doing dirty dance. Isn't it awkward! But I thought he was entertaining... I was really amazed! We laughed our heads off...

OHHHHH... HE IS HER FRIEND FROM MALAYSIA!

After all these... some gathered to drink, some gathered for card game. I played 'Cheat'; a game of deception and lying. Oh well... most of my friends know I don't tell lies because I'm really bad at it!!! If I do, I will usually smile guiltily. This explains why I lose in such games...

Before the clock struck 12, some of us had to leave to catch the last train. Sadly, I'm one of them. Though I really wish I can stay longer... Still, I had my fair share of fun.

Thank you, Ying Zi and everyone! ♥

Photos credit to:
leongraphy

It's a love worth waiting for...

2011-05-28T14:22:00.004+08:00

I’m in love with you

want to stay in love with you
so I’m going to live alone
yeah I’ll be happy on my own

Live the rest of my life
with the vaguest of feeling

Ahhhhhhhhh

Wherever you are
whoever is there
you know that I’ll be here, I'll be here
wishing i could be there~

你是我最重要的決定

2011-05-28T11:11:00.001+08:00

我常在想應該再也找不到任何人像你對我那麼好好到我的家人也被照料我的朋友還為你撐腰你還是有一堆毛病改不掉拗起來氣得仙女都跳腳可是人生完美的事太少我們不能什麼都想要你是我最重要的決定我願意每天在你身邊甦醒就連吵架也很過癮不會冷冰因為真愛沒有輸贏只有親密你是我最重要的決定我願意打破對未知的恐懼就算流淚也能放晴將心比心因為幸福沒有捷徑只有經營 (我愛你)~

Taylor Swift - Back To December

2011-05-27T01:40:00.003+08:00

Try ColorGenics, Again!

2011-05-24T11:27:00.002+08:00

...here's My First Test

"Everyone feels despondent at times and you are no exception. You are feeling so depressed because it seems that everything that could go wrong has gone wrong and you don't quite know which way to turn. So like the proverbial ostrich you are trying to bury your head in the sand. But that won't work - you have to face reality.

You are a leader and possibly at this tine in a position of authority, but you are experiencing problems. You are not quite sure how to handle the present situation.

You know what you want and you are very dogmatic and demanding - especially in your emotional demands. You have specific ideas and beliefs and if these beliefs are not realised you can become extremely frustrated. You may not be that perfect but you are looking for perfection with the perfect partner.

For whatever the reason, you find it extremely difficult to sustain relationships - that is to sustain them in the manner that you would wish. You are a very gentle sort of person, full of feeling, sensitivity and susceptible to love and affection, looking and longing for a partner with whom you can enjoy 'All things bright and beautiful' - someone with whom you can seek out the more esoteric things of life. But up to now this person has only existed in your imagination. You are very choosy, appreciative, refined and extremely artistic in temperament and it is your hope to seek others who will allow you to form and express your own taste and judgement and who at the same time may assist you in your intellectual or artistic growth.

Perhaps in the distant past your trust and belief in your fellow man was misplaced and you can now no longer accept anything as it appears to be. You are untrusting and you insist that before you commit yourself to anything, you examine the pro's and con's with critical discrimination. The situation has now progressed to one where you are apt to disagree yet not make any form of constructive criticism to every suggestion that may be put to you. As a result you are in limbo. There is a saying that goes 'The past does not equal tomorrow'. Think about it - and let go."

http://www.colorgenicstest.com/

An Apple Tree

2011-05-22T13:11:00.001+08:00

Friendship is like an apple tree. The good friends are hard to get, just like the good apples on the top of the tree. You have to get past the bad friends like the rotten apples on the ground.

Friends are like APPLES on tree. The best ones are at the top of the tree. You have to be brave enough to climb all the way to reach for them. They will wait for you to come along… So keep trying; do not be afraid of falling and getting hurt.

I think I have done a good job of maintaining my apple tree. I know, right now I can’t tell. It is not complete. Some will rot and fall off, others will grow. But stay awhile and maybe then we will see.

Be careful who you call a friend

2011-05-22T13:09:00.013+08:00

"Friends. I think this word is often misused and abused. And I say this as a person that has a lot of friends, and by a lot I mean, I can count them on more than one hand.

A friend is someone that I can share my life with–in good and bad times, someone that gives and gets advice, someone that I look up to, someone that inspires and encourages.

I used to think good friends were hard to come by, until I realized I had several. When you are a good person, you attract good people. I don’t talk to them all daily, or see them that often. When you have something in common with someone and you share parts of your life with them and hold confidences, I consider that friendship. I don’t take any of it lightly. You get what you give.

Even saying that, I pick my friends like I pick my fruit: carefully, cautiously. Thoughtful of what I’m ingesting as nourishment. Ponder on that: thoughtful of what I’m ingesting as nourishment. Do you uplift me? Do I learn from you? Do you feel the same way about me? Some people have maintained friends simply because of time and history. As long as it’s not toxic, I can live with that, but there must be some new memories, some new lessons to keep the friendship afloat. Other people you outgrow with the seasons and I can live with that as well. No hard feelings, just moving along and moving on."

–Reecie, https://musicmakesmehigh.wordpress.com/

I absolutely agree wholeheartedly with this great post!

JOYCE'S 21ST BIRTHDAY

2011-05-17T23:56:00.011+08:00

Joyce turned 21 on 29 April 2011... she has invited her beloved friends to her place for a simple celebration on this special day of hers. I, her meowmy, attended her party with the cousins*. We had to be dressed confidently for the birthday themed 'Model-licious'~

Are you [ƃuılooɹp] yet. Her chocolate-licious cake from Four Leaves. I always love the biscuit layer in the cake, super yummilicious... I had to kope more layers of biscuits from Andy's share to satisfy my craving. Heh heh.

Before we have our share of the cake, we were welcomed by home cooked food... delicious and easy. *IF I CAN COOK...*

...enjoying the food!

At around 8ish... "Happy Birthday to You, Happy Birthday to You, Happy Birthday to Joyceeeee, Happy Birthday to You~"

BIRTHDAY GIRL
...making her wish!

...with the ladies*

...with the gentlemen*

WOOHOO!!! Look at her happy face... as she unwrapped the presents. Me, I always love the process of unwrapping gift, it is like [sɥɐpɐʇ]~ Whooooo doesn't love a surprise, right. I definitely do.

She has X-Mini Capsule Speakers (Hello Kitty Special Edition)
from Andy, Jinglong and me.

I HOPE YOU LURVE IT~

Picture of you, picture of me, picture of us... keeping memories.

ONCE AGAIN, WISH YOU BE HAPPY STAY HEALTHY! x

(Photos grabbed from Facebook, from the album "My 21st Party" by Joyce Lim)

Awe Night at Marina Barrage

2011-05-12T21:52:00.008+08:00

After spending the day with the cousins* at With a Pinch of Salt and Coffee Bean... I also had a well spent night with the girls... PICNIC AT MARINA BARRAGE under the moon and stars, with oh-so-pretty kites reaching for the sky. I always enjoy a night like this~

#moon#kites#people

The boys and girls were spreading the mats and laying the food while I was playing with the camera. Look... we had fruits with chocolate, hotdogs, sushi and chips... so yummy~

NOM NOM NOM NOM NOM

...with people I l☺ve

Fly kite, fly kie, all the way they go fly kite~

(stoups) We DO NOT have LED lights on the kite... but can you see the panda kite? It's Singyee's! I didn't bring my mermaid kite along as I just wanted to sit down and chill. The best part was I lay down on the ground, facing the sky... IT IS SOMETHING I ALWAYS WANTED TO DO!!! *scream YEAH YEAH YEAH!*

THE C-O-L-O-U-R-F-U-L KITES...

...with the ladies ♥

# Marina Bay Sands Singapore# Singapore Flyer

I truly enjoyed the night with the girls and their boyfriends... and I believe they enjoyed as much as I did. It was a good time for us, everyone come together and talk about how we are each doing. Night like this are love! x

All I know is that...

2011-04-30T14:56:00.005+08:00

I miss you more & more,
everyday.

I'm certain that it is you.
I'm waiting for. All along.

You're irreplaceable. Special.

Sooooooooo.....I didn't tell anyone about my doubt. I know very well you will be my answer. I'm so glad I waited until we met. Because you're worth. ☺

He is the answer to everyone's question...
I love him, still. No buts. No whys. I just do.

11

2011-04-27T20:33:00.005+08:00

"Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life."

— Bob Marley

Happy-Go-Luckier

2011-04-23T18:21:00.013+08:00

// We have been friends together,
in sunshine and in shade.

leongraphy

Dream2breakaway

ANdyStorm

dcannx

-xoxo-

'with a pinch of salt' by kyra

2011-04-23T16:27:00.024+08:00

[READ] Back in November... Our first trip to With A Pinch Of Salt*

On Saturday, April 16
With A Pinch Of Salt

We're back! We missed this place! Cosy cafe with an attractive decoration; bright coloured wallpapers, cute posters, adorable pictures... SOOOOO colourful! *ilike

While waiting for the food to be served...
MONOPOLY DEAL, forever!

OUR ORDERS ARE HERE...

Cheesy Fries
Crispy golden fries with melted cheese. Really.
REALLY MY FAV. HOT BIT & BITE!!!

Golden Calamari Rings

Soft-shell Crab Salad
Mixed greens topped with soft-shell crab.
I ♥ the salad!!! not the soft-shell crab...
NEITHER warm nor crispy! /disappointed

PASTA:-O

Mdm Chicken Corden-Bleu
Deep fried breaded chicken stuffed with
ham & cheese topped with aioli sauce.

Jumbo Chick's Leg
Tasty, roasted chicken leg served
with aunt Rosemary's sauce.
Luvin' it!!!!! Luvin'it!!!!!!!!!!

Choco Lava
Rich melted chocolate served with vanilla ice-cream.
MY FAV. DESSERT!!! MUST TRY!! MUST TRY!!!

It's only a cafe, don't take it seriously... RELAX ONLY!
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHA! We're such photo whores!
ooooooooook LAH... it's just Jing Long and I.

Jing Long 'n' Jia Qi

*Y U NO BIG EYES*
↳ HIS FAVOURITE PHOTO W. ME!

Jia Qi 'n' Andy

*Y U SO ACT CUTE*
↳ HIS FAVOURITE PHOTO W. ME!

Andy 'n' Joyce

Don 'n' Ying Zi

Ying Zi 'n' Jia Qi

*What can we do next? What can we do next? What can we do next?*

Remember, I will never ever get bored with friends around.

More photos here*

What I learned from last night's chat;

2011-04-23T16:12:00.001+08:00

"When wealth is lost, nothing is lost;
when health is lost, something is lost;
when character is lost, all is lost."

-Billy Graham

happygirl1990!*

2011-04-23T01:11:00.004+08:00

Talking to him has put a new light into my eyes.

He's made me remember what it feels like to be alive.

Welcome to Rio!

2011-04-17T18:49:00.004+08:00

YOU MUST WATCH 'RIO'.....

“Flying is freedom and not having to rely on anyone.” –Jewel of RIO

“Flying is not what you think in your mind. It’s how you feel in your heart.” –Rafael of RIO

The night is more alive...

2011-04-10T17:58:00.019+08:00

Mr Punch Restaurant and Winebar

in Mint Museum of Toys, located at 26 Seah Street

'Voyage de la Vie

in Festival Grand, Resorts World at Sentosa

With a Pinch of Salt

www.withapinchofsalt.com.sg

located at 297 Tanjong Katong Road

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A love like that...

2011-04-06T10:13:00.005+08:00

(Taken on June 26, 2010)

Last night… I was telling my family, ‘A friend of mine told me that there are families that will separate themselves and take different flights to the same destination. In case, one of the planes crashed and they didn’t survive, the family members in the other plane can arrange for the funeral and handle the important matters that are left behind.’ I was happily surprised to know that everyone objected to this. “We rather die together than to live without one another!” All I can say is, I’m so proud of my family! ♥

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LET'S DO IT EVERY YEAR!

2011-04-03T11:16:00.036+08:00

A PICNIC DAY AT MARINA BARRAGE

Let's have a picnic day, every year! In for it?
May 16, 2010 - the cousins* had an awesome picnic day! [READ HERE]

Some time between end of 2010 and beginning of 2011, we had been asking for another picnic day...

On March 26, 2011... we had the picnic day again! Proudly organised by yours truly me, with plenty of help from Andy, Don, Joyce and the cousins*. Nobody ever said planning for an outing was easy, but it would be worth it. Due to busy schedule, I could not find the time to send an invitation message. Still, thanks to Ying Zi. She gave me a gentle reminder to invite the cousins*

Knowing that I needed a volunteer to prepare the fruits, Andy helped. The super model, runway diva, creative director, top notch blogger, legendary pretty Don willingly agreed to bringing the picnic mats, that will help lighten the load for me. Aside from that, his dearest mum prepared agar agar. Joyce prepared sandwiches. She also proposed for a 'theme' as she wanted to create a video for the cousins* She suggested that we can be in same colored shirts (if not similar accessories) while I imagined the cousins* in high socks. That's just my crazy thought. After a discussion with Andy, we finalized the 'theme'. That was to be in different colored shirts; BE COLORFUL [I-LOVE-YOU]!

@ANdyStorm Yellow ☑ @dcannx White with colored stripes ☑ @jqmeow White ☑ @getme0ut Blue ☑ @Dream2breakaway Green ☑ @forest330 Grey ☑ @leongraphy Red ☑ @Swiszy ?

The night before, I had to pack the 'to bring list': Kites ☑ Fondue set ☑ Al foil/ Al tray/ PP containers ☑ Utensils ☑ Holga/ Polaroid ☑ Monopoly deal ☑ Light sticks/ Sparklers ☑

Tadahs! There are 14 kites at home...

On the day itself, we met in Suntec City Mall Cold Storage to shop for the 'to buy list'. Picked everything we need and want... quick buy!

As we had a bad experience with waiting for the shuttle bus, we decided to hire the taxi to Marina Barrage... *Marina Barrage Shuttle Bus Timings

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It was a ☼ Sunday, with some hazy ☁.

Well, we should be pleased that it didn't rain.

Here's a photo of us before

we dug into the huge amount of food...

CHOCOLATE FONDUE! FRUITS! MARSHMALLOW!

SANDWICHES! AGAR AGAR! HOTDOGS! CHEESE!

BISCUITS! BREADS! COOKIES! CHIPS! JELLIES!

OM NOM NOM-ING AWAY~

Mametchi and Memetchi

很adorable的

To use up the leftovers, we sat in a circle and played Indian Poker. The forfeit is... of course... to finish a cup of mixed leftover food! I had a cherry tomato only. NOT SO YUMMY!

Looking at their 'EEEYER' expressions...

Well, it's actually NOT AT ALL YUMMY! (-_-)

.....and Li Mei is the ONLY ONE who escaped the forfeit!

NEXT,
♪ ♫ ~FLY KITE FLY KITE ALL THE WAY WE GO FLY KITE~ ♩ ♬

THEN,
blowing bubbles 'n' air balloons... ⒽⒶⓅⓅⒾⓃⒺⓈⓈ

...that attracted the little cute boy

I heart his shirt!!!

***If you do read under 'About jqMEow'...

"I'm a suffering soul and sometimes lose control of my emotions.
I need you to be understanding and not give up on me."

It simply meant, PLEASE BE PATIENT WITH ME.

.....

THAT'S ALL ABOUT OUR AWESOME ACTIVITIES ❤

COUSINS*

DOING THE JUMP SHOTS.....

Introducing the...
Uniquely Cousins*

Andy

Ashton

Don

Jing Long

Joyce

Li Mei

Meldric

Ying Zi

The sun is setting on our picnic day...

Just before we left Marina Barrage...

On our way... back to Marina Bay... to Marina Square...

Not forgetting, we played Monopoly Deal IN PAIRS!

Andy 'n' Joyce;Don 'n' Jia Qi;Meldric 'n' Yingzi;Jing Long 'n' Li Mei;I must say, it is EXCITING! Good Game!

26 March, 2011 - the cousins* had another awesome picnic day! Ah, how good it feels! I can see the joy. The smile on our faces. When everyone's together. Every minute together. So precious. I hope the cousins* truly enjoyed this day as much as I truly did.

Here's the video by Joyce, for the cousins*

❤XOXO❤

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Don't Think, Just Snap! #009

2011-03-31T23:40:00.010+08:00

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Birds fly high, hard to catch
Friends like you, hard to get
#iwillkeepyoulockedinmyheart

Don't Think, Just Snap! #008

2011-03-31T23:36:00.009+08:00

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/ Free as a bird, locked in a cage
#lockedheart

[-... .] [.-. . .-.-..]

2011-03-27T22:40:00.034+08:00

"Who do you think you are. Running 'round leaving scars. Collecting your jar of hearts. Tearing love apart."

I can't go on a day without thinking, who are you when no one is looking. Your real, true self. The person that you live with within. Well you built up a world of magic. Impress everyone you know. YEAH YOU BUILT UP A WORLD OF MAGIC. Enchant everyone around you.

Do you, do you ever feel that... let's face it, your real life is a mess! Selfish and secretive. Hiding your real self because you're afraid... afraid no one will really accept your flaws and faults? Or, do you do it because you regard that as none of anyone's business? Either reasons show the ugly truth of you.

I once thought you will change your selfishness into selflessness. And now I know I was mistaken. For time has proven I was wrong. I feel like I'm waiting for something that isn't gonna happen. Stop, tell me the truth cause I'm confused.

Have you ever thought about who you really are? Are you loved for who you are? If you were loved, it might not have been for who you really are. Do they really know you? They love you for your talent. They love you for your look. They love you for... Well, technically, the love was never there. Love does not exist if it's not based on being known for whom one really is.

You're a prince. You're a wolf.
You are, you are, you are what you is.

I'm trying to help you show your real self. I tried, ~~I failed~~. Le Sigh.

"You're gonna catch a cold.
From the ice inside your soul."

***

When will I ever stop lying to myself. Who do I think I am.

These worries are heavy, they rest on my shoulders~
My body won't let me fall victim no more~
Yeah life is like that, beat me up and I'm fighting right back~
Poof poof be gone, I see the devil linger on, yeah I wanna win~

I feel great fear and reluctance when I think of that because I read it as a difficult and trying problem that will stretch us to our limits. I know I can only surrender to that and let it happen and that I don't really have much of a choice in the matter, but I guess I'm still looking for some sort of reassurance.

"When you're around someone so much, for so long, they become a part of you. And when they change or go away, you don't know who you are without them."

Let's be honest? Can we.

MEow: So much to say, so little time...

Don't Think, Just Snap! #007

2011-03-26T03:19:00.005+08:00

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...taking a look at life upside down
#differentperspective

Don't Think, Just Snap! #006

2011-03-26T03:17:00.005+08:00

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/ Spread the love everywhere you go
#iloveyoulife

Don't Think, Just Snap! #005

2011-03-26T03:16:00.006+08:00

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/ The sun is new each day
#morningstar

Don't Think, Just Snap! #004

2011-03-26T02:57:00.006+08:00

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...at once I saw a crowd ~~(cloud)~~
#floatingintheblue

The Little Things That Make Me Happy #005

2011-03-22T23:11:00.007+08:00

"@jqmeow_: Tamagotchi!!! I want, I want."
"@ANdyStorm: I secretly want one too! :D"
"@forest330: Let's buy!!!!!!!!!!"
Tue Jul 13 2010 14:03:32

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I can has Tama-Go! Mametchi!

Thanks @forest330! ☺
http://twitpic.com/4bgsl7
10:58 PM Mar 20th via Twitpic

Mametchi (sincere • smart • polite)
11:01 PM Mar 20th via web

Mametchi's favorite quote:

"NOT WEIRD, JUST SMART!"
Sun Mar 20 2011 23:01:40 via web

爸爸说很美，妈妈说很可爱~

Mametchi, Meowmy爱你~
Sun Mar 20 2011 23:07:50 via web

Belong to +齐(=^.^=)
from March 20th, 2011 onwards.

Thanks to forest330!☺

The Little Things That Make Me Happy #004

2011-03-22T22:10:00.002+08:00

FoR A SpEciAl FRiENd...

"Happy 20th Birthday!!
Continue to strive and work hard!!"

...sENdiNg you lovE oN youR BirthdAy

Belong to +齐(=^.^=)
from March 12th, 2011 onwards.

Thanks to buddy!☺

The Little Things That Make Me Happy #003

2011-03-22T21:11:00.003+08:00

I ♥ SURPRISE! I ♥ SURPRISE! I ♥ SURPRISE!

Belong to +齐(=^.^=)
from February 20th, 2011 onwards.

Thanks to ANdyStorm!☺

Don't Think, Just Snap! #003

2011-03-20T14:42:00.005+08:00

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/ A friend for the lonesome to talk to
#supermoon

Foreign-You

Chinese New Year's Eve

It just came to my mind...

1-1-20TWELFTH

Christmas 2011;

Merry Christmas 2011!

When the going gets tough, the tough get going...

The Tourist (2010)

KAIXIN'S 21ST BIRTHDAY

YINGHUI'S 21ST BIRTHDAY

Don't you just love (surprise) gifts?

A trip to Haw Par Villa...

Don't be afraid to look silly...

JINGLONG'S 19ST BIRTHDAY

{Food is Love - Pique Nique}

{Food is Love - Strictly Pancakes}

It is the simple things that make me smile...

If love was easy...

ANDY'S 22ND BIRTHDAY

SINGYEE'S 21ST BIRTHDAY

YVONNE'S 21ST BIRTHDAY

Where do I begin.

A 'Happy Halloween Night'

Somewhere beyond..

ANdy's Commissioning Parade

月亮代表我你的心

101007

071007

A Gathering of Friends!

Housewarming Party

GISIANG'S 21ST BIRTHDAY

Skinny(Pi)

Truely Madly Deeply

Prawn-fishing @ Bishan

H2H

MAAD Pyjamas

'Come Home to nex for National Day'

Life goes on..

timbré @ the substation

#justanadvice

Dear Friends-- This Is My Perfect Moment With You

Dear Friends-- This Is Your Moment

Dear Friends-- Thank You All

NDP 2011 Preview (@ Marina Bay)

Singapore Social Media Day

I caught the moon for you!

I'll Remember You

I'll be here, wishing I could be there~

How long have you been friends?

#DumbOrNot

Friends Will Be Friends

IT ALL BEGINS WITH A SMILE...

YINGZI'S 18TH BIRTHDAY

It's a love worth waiting for...

你是我 最重要的決定

Taylor Swift - Back To December

Try ColorGenics, Again!

An Apple Tree

Be careful who you call a friend

JOYCE'S 21ST BIRTHDAY

Awe Night at Marina Barrage

All I know is that...

11

Happy-Go-Luckier

'with a pinch of salt' by kyra

What I learned from last night's chat;

happygirl1990!*

Welcome to Rio!

The night is more alive...

A love like that...

LET'S DO IT EVERY YEAR!

Don't Think, Just Snap! #009

Don't Think, Just Snap! #008

[-... .] [.-. . .-.-..]

Don't Think, Just Snap! #007

Don't Think, Just Snap! #006

Don't Think, Just Snap! #005

Don't Think, Just Snap! #004

The Little Things That Make Me Happy #005

The Little Things That Make Me Happy #004

你是我最重要的決定